Comments on: Dr. Queerlove: Bottoming 101

By: Luke

Luke — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 06:59:00 +0000

thanks for all you information. I love fingers in the shower helps me clean up.

By: Prentis-bttm

Prentis-bttm — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 00:45:30 +0000

Can sumone clarify the ennema thing mean…. Is douching with jus warm water bad or is it the douching with other solutions tht cause a problem. I personally dnt like fingerin. i clean up wel afta takin a dump, i use the dry and then wet toilet paper and i dnt eva use public restrooms. But i really need to undastand if this enema thing is bad fa me……. I just use warm water and i dnt do it too often.

By: Avesraggiana

Avesraggiana — Wed, 08 Dec 2010 14:23:00 +0000

Love that term, “ass boogers”!

By: Douchey McDouche

Douchey McDouche — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 05:27:34 +0000

I agree with almost everyone’s post, for and against. I do not recommend douching regularly – only once in a long while when you’re not sure what your body is telling you about how much it has “stored” (if you get my meaning).
That said, I have to admit that I almost *always* do a wet/dry douche in the shower, every time I shower – meaning I use the water and my fingers, but do not add any fluid up inside. This has its own problems (mainly if a LOT of stuff comes out, and you’re in a shower with poor drainage. This has happened to me once or twice, which was once or twice way too often), and it’s taken me many years to get the right combo down. But basically since I shower at night (and tend to have sex at night), I’m almost always (barring any diarrhea or other sickness) good for several hours after – sometimes even until morning.
The only reason I do this every time I shower is because I’m anal (I know, I know. ha ha.) and obviously a little OCD. The interesting thing is that my reaction to shit has gotten much more relaxed as a result. Now if I encounter some during sex, either from me or my partner, I’m not nearly as grossed out.
If you know you’re dirty, there is also nothing wrong with cleaning up right before sex, or if you have a hot date. And ALWAYS trust your body. If you don’t feel you have to clean or douche, don’t. But playing around in the shower will let you realize and understand your own body’s signals. And it (usually and should) feels really good.

By: Daniel

Daniel — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 06:37:02 +0000

Ooooh, I never thought of that ‘dry enema’ Diego… Good idea!
Agreed, we shouldn’t care what our partners think about shit on their dick. Personally, I just don’t like the ‘I need to shit’ feeling that having a little bit in there gives me… Perhaps I’m alone in that LOL!
ReluctantBottom, I would say a few hours probably… I’ve never actually sat with a stop-watch! Diego’s right, you can never expect a sparkling springwater-clean hole, and you shouldn’t put ur health at risk to try… As per my earlier statement, take a dump when you feel the need to and just clean with a finger or 2 in the shower – try 3 even, make the chore fun!
This aint gonna work if you’re doing the dinner/movie routine, but if you need to shit during dinner, grab a hand-towel at the basin in the bathroom, wet it and take it with u into the cubicle. After you’ve wiped normally, have a swish with the wet towel to give urself a nice clean pooper… Ready for action in the back row of the cinema (if that’s ur thing…lol).
Ps. Its great to see a comment feed that hasn’t become the usual bitching and arguing that a lot of other feeds seem to sink to! (Yet…)

By: ReluctantBottom

ReluctantBottom — Sat, 30 May 2009 12:42:24 +0000

Can anyone comment on how long one might be “clean” after douching? It sounds like it should be done shortly (but maybe not immediately) before intercourse. That doesn’t seem to fit with drinks, dinner and a movie, if you get my drift.

By: Diego

Diego — Fri, 29 May 2009 07:32:59 +0000

@ Pete: Everything in excess is bad, even something as essential as water can cause negative effects in excess. So as Akipatel said, listen to your body, if it stats hurting STOP! Just like you would pull your hand away from a hot stove.
As far as douching I stand by my statement that you should AVOID them and stick to a healthy diet with more fiber.
My BOTTOM line is if your partner can’t deal with a little shit on his dick (preferably on the the condom) once in a while he shouldn’t put it in your ass. Don’t put your health at risk to meet unreal ideas of cleanliness
Also if you really want to douche try a “Dry Enema” instead. It consist of putting lube (remember to use condom safe lube) in your ass with a syringe (no needle!) instead of warm water. It won’t flush out residues as good but it will cover whatever is left with lube so they won’t stick as easily to your partner’s penis.
And remember to always use a condom

By: akipatel

akipatel — Thu, 28 May 2009 21:08:30 +0000

I agree with the medical student. I am a medical student as well, and if you use enemas you can hurt the mucus lining of the rectum. Eliminating the mucus lining you can diminish the body natural way of protecting itself against pathogens. Your feces contain bacteria and other microorganisms, and with a damaged rectal lining the bacteria and microorganisms might be able to penetrate the rectal wall. This will cause irritation, infections, and a stinky mess. Just clean a little in the shower and you should be fine for sex.
Regarding the how often you have anal pounding question. In my opinion, listen to your body. If it becomes uncomfortable or hurts then take a break. If normal situations like bowel movements become uncomfortable, painful, or irregular, then you should take caution. In addition, see a doctor if the symptoms do not go away. It’s better to take care of the issue before it becomes serious. GOOD POUNDING!!! Also use protection. There are STIs other than HIV that can cause other serious conditions like anal cancer. Just because you partner is clean of HIV doesn’t mean he is clear of the others.
-The Medical Student who takes it in the butt.

By: pete

pete — Thu, 28 May 2009 18:16:30 +0000

Pete here… with a question for all you Med students or Dr.s out there…how often could (or should) a guy douche or get fucked in the butt? Meaning is it ok to get a butt pounding daily?

By: David S. Novak, Senior Public Health Strategist

David S. Novak, Senior Public Health Strategist — Thu, 28 May 2009 15:41:48 +0000

There is some great information about anal sex on MANHUNT Cares. Check out the ‘focus on health’ anal pleasure 101 video and ‘previous focus on health’ sex toy safety and anal health entries!