Random Question: The Oldest / The Youngest?

November 28, 2011
dewitt
Bears & Hairy Men
56 Comments

Do you have an age range for who you’re willing to date? If so, does it differ from the age range for who you’re willing to hook-up with? That’s the theme for today’s Random Question, as we explore your individual preferences (and prospective ageism) from both sides of the spectrum.

That’s right. We want to hear from all of you. Younger guys who fuck older guys, even though they’d never date them! Older guys who fuck younger guys, even though they’d never date them! Younger guys who only date or sleep with older guys! Vice versa! Older or younger guys who only date within their age group! ::heavy sigh:: We could go on all day like this… You get the point, right? Let’s get this discussion rolling!

- Dewitt

Photo credit: Badpuppy

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FUN FACT: According to Badpuppy, William Vas (31 years-old) is only thirteen years apart from Bronson Gates (44 years-old). While that age gap may not be insignificant, it’s a lot smaller than I would have guessed based on their appearances alone. How about you? Would you have been able to predict their correct ages?

Happy

When one of you doesn’t want to have sex, you need to identify what the underlying issue is in the relationship. There is something(s) that has not been addressed. Usually if you have an intuition or inkling about what it might be, then that’s it; our sixth sense is accurate. Find a way to talk about it and get back on the same page. There was an original attraction that is still there; it’s just buried underneath the unsaid, unheard, unmanaged things that tend to happen in a relationship. I’m 53 and my partner is half my age; we have a good sex life and when there’s a lull we deal with whatever had not been handled between us… then it’s off to the bedroom again.
Young’un

When I realized I was gay I turned to the online world to meet guys. This was when I was 16. I would chat a lot but never meet, mostly out of fear. I got to chatting with this guy who was 38. He was super hot – nice and hairy and muscular. He was actually a police officer. (16 is legal where I am, btw.)So after a couple of weeks of chatting we met for coffee, went back to his place, and had 2 hours of mind-blowing sex. I had only j/o or sucked off other guys by then and he showed me how to really have an amazing time. We had a FWB relationship for 2 years after that, before I started dating for real. To this day, he was my best ever.
Bernard

Age is irrelevant to me. If your hot your hot no matter the age
notsure

well here goes. I used to be like a lot of you, now at the age of 36 I just don’t know. I have been in a relationship for 13 years. My partner is getting ready to turn 50. While I have been fine with the age difference in the past, now the sex is bad if at all and he is sagging everywhere. We connect and get along like no other couple I have been around. What the hell is wrong with me? Because of the big 50 I think I am gonna break up with him. Ok give me feedback guys.
Anonymous

I definitely agree… my last relationship was with a 44 yr old… so i don’t see a problem. We had a great relationship. Though I am really attracted to older guys, a lot of the issues mentioned regarding sex drive and all do make me a little uncertain when it comes to dating again.
Nils Luschert

I am 31 hairless.
i like 44 bears.
thatsit.

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