Random Question: What Makes A “Good” Bottom?

December 12, 2011
dewitt
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Last week, a coworker sent me an instructional video on how to fuck, complete with actual fucking. While this may seem like a thoroughly unprofessional thing for one colleague to send to another, you have to take into consideration that this is Manhunt headquarters. The abbreviation “NSFW” doesn’t mean much here. A decent portion of us spend our work hours staring at dicks.

Speaking of dicks, this video featured a very large one. The instructor doles out a few good gems of advice, but I had to tune out when he started to describe his idea of a good bottom. Basically, he wants someone who’ll just lie there and let him control the rhythm… This doesn’t mesh well with me. I like a bottom who’ll push back and show me how much he wants me inside of him. A ravenous, cock-hungry beast who I’m forced to tame. Eh, but that’s just me!

In your opinion, what qualities make someone a “good” bottom? Based on the video included in this post, would you consider Fuck Vs. Fuck winner Logan Taylor (pictured above) a decent or lousy fuck?

- Dewitt

Photo credit: Southern Strokes

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Dylan T

My bf loves when I push back onto him. We get a rythm going so that i push back just as he pushes in. The only times i don’t move is when he has me tied up
Richard Costa Rica

(1) Aggressive but not to the extent that they take charge “all the time” and are totally controlling. Love-making requires balance, with each partner taking turns to control the direction of the action, each being assertive at the appropriate time.

(2) Having a willingness to “connect” and not just crazed about having somebody’s dick inside of one of their orafices (ie., inside of them)…but to realize that there is a real person at the other end of the “stick”, hence valuing of me, and my parts and my needs, as well as my valuing his…

(3) Good communicaton so we can please each other~!!!
cat73walk

I have met tops that want to take control and do all the pumping and grinding, and those who prefer the bottom guy pushing back. I enjoy both ways. With different sex buddies, you learn to appreciate what they can offer, and make the experience unique to the two of you. Hmmm, maybe I’m subtly suggesting I’m a good one…
ubg469

Too tame for me …. I agree with you – “I like a bottom who’ll push back and show me how much he wants me inside of him. A ravenous, cock-hungry beast who I’m forced to tame. Eh, but that’s just me!”
MrIvan

Definitively cleanness. A clean bottom makes a happy top.
Stereo

A good bottom decides the pace of the fucking and how hard he wants to get fucked. He shouldn’t be lazy or too passive and the most important thing is that he needs to know how to drive the top crazy and make him want his ass more.
Darson256

I hate bottoms that just lie there as well. He should be “keeping up his end” of things to. The top shouldn’t have to do all the work unless that was negotiated beforehand. Also HATE a bottom who claims how much he loves cock esp. big cock and then whines and bitches when you start going in. Ow ow go slower oh oh take it out. Like the saying goes, Don’t let your mouth write checks your butt can’t cover.
Pigknuckle

that techboy video was kinda hot! i think i might subscribe to his vids
d

q good bottom does NOT just lie there like a sack of potatoes
http://twitter.com/Str8GuyGayQuote Phil McCrakin

Definitely need to be engaging. Even if you’re pinned down and I’m just pounding ya, it’s nice for one errand hand to surprisingly grab at the back of my head or maybe that from behind kiss might get an unexpected bite.
Breon

Clean clean and then clean some more makes a great bottom..with a good arch…
http://www.jimwilkinsonimages.blogspot.com Jim Wilkinson Images

Good bottom= tight, clean, adventuresome, sense of humor, has great eyes, smile and face, reasonable body, hopefully some chest and facial hair, is “present”, in the moment, wants to be here and lets me know it.
Fllopez

CLEAN, WASH THAT ASS!!! A bottom should help out, he knows where to move and how much to move to make sure that my dick is hitting is prostate or if I am hitting it too hard. Talk nasty and tell me what it feels like to have me inside him. Yell at me too pound him harder, grab my ass and force me into him. My man pounds himself on my pole to the point that sometimes I have to tell him to slow down because my nuts are slapping him so hard they hurt
http://www.MaleEroticEvolution.com Michael!

“just lay there and let me CONTROL the rhythm”…sounds like a typical “top only” with lots of control issues that has no idea what it’s like to be a bottom. Sex should be about both guys being fully active and having fun.
datashaman

Richard, you win.
jstbrsn

A good bottom/top will let his partner know what feels good and what doesn’t. If his partner is a good top/bottom he will listen and accommodate his partner.
tolbuck

Agree. Whereas I can be versatile, I actually prefer to Bottom for a more Aggressive Top that is Bigger than Me…….Beefy,stocky yet inshape. Tyler Reed is My Personal FANTASY Type Top ……Big Dude, Relentless Powertop who is insatiable and capable of making a Bottom SCREAM. I’ve always been told a Good Bottom will not only offer His Mouth and Hole to a Top but make sure His Ass is HUNGRY and ready for a WorkOut!
Bernard

Good personal hygiene. Then we can go from there.
Jai Darby Walker

…is definitely not a “layer” ;D

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