Look, I think he’s hot, but given how much he talks about going to the gym … he’s a little flabby.

I want to go to there.

Why is it that gay men need to use the female terms for either themselves or others? Was it necessary to say “She” needs to lay off the Oreos? There are more and more articles lately about how absolutely horrid gay men are to other gay men….bullying with comments or actions against others who aren’t up to “their” standards. You see it on here all the time: “Great but he has tats, ewwww.” or “He’s too furry, sticks in my teeth.” or too fat, too skinny, no legs, overbuilt, too old, too young….the list goes on and on. And we worry about outside forces putting us down? Seriously, grow up.

I and the people I associate with do not in any way consider ourselves treated like women, nor do we need to treat other gay men as such. We’re men, period. I understand your comment but have to add SOME gay men can act as women who can be catty, but your generalization I think is off for every gay man.