Have You Ever: Had Performance Anxiety?
My apologies if this isn’t sexiest topic for our Have You Ever column. With that said? Most of us, at some point or another, have experienced performance issues. Perhaps you couldn’t get or stay hard. Maybe you couldn’t “finish” when the time came for the grand finale. Or, from an entirely different angle, maybe you couldn’t relax enough to sit down on that big dick, when you knew damn well that you could take it balls-deep on a good day.
It happens to the best of us.
And the sort of okay, maybe terrible ones like me! I had a few months in college where I couldn’t cum in front of anyone. While it certainly wasn’t the worst problem to have, there can be something deeply unsatisfying about not bringing your partner to completion. I was putting guys through that every single time we hooked up, and the more I had to say “next time”, the less there became a chance that there would be a next time.
So how did I get over it? I wound up meeting a guy on Manhunt who was in his thirties and, thereby, slightly experienced than the fresh young bucks I was fucking and sucking on campus. He was patient enough to wait for me and rub the right places, all while talking dirty about how good my cock felt when it was in his ass. I think once I stopped worrying so much about taking longer to cum than the average 18-21 year-old, I was able to let go and, well, enjoy myself with other 18-21 year-olds.
This isn’t all too different from the advice Colby Keller gave in his video about performance anxiety… But we all have different experiences! As embarrassing or emasculating as it might be, I want to hear your stories and solutions for issues like this. You don’t have to be afraid to share! Like I said, it happens to the best of us.
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