Gay Terms We Hate: Boy Pussy

Since we launched this feature, “boy pussy” (follow by “boycunt” and “mangina”) has been the term you guys seem to hate the most. In fact, it was suggested SO many times that it might be the most despised term in the gay lexicon. And yes, it’s THE WORST. Why? Because we like guys! “Pussy” is “vagina”! “Pussy” turns the majority (except for you bisexual gentlemen) of us off. We love our lady friends, but we don’t want to go anywhere near your cavern of mysteries.

And then latching “boy” onto it. It’s just a traffic accident between ladyparts and things that sound potentially underage.

Just call it a damn butthole! Asshole! Yes, “anus” is gross but it doesn’t summon the image of a dude with a vagine in his ass. I am not getting anywhere near your hole if you’re calling it “boy pussy.” Good heavens. WRONG. WRONG. WRONG.

And yes, “man pussy” or (even worse) “mussy” is out, too!

– J. Harvey

Photo credit: Hot House

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757 thoughts on “Gay Terms We Hate: Boy Pussy

  1. LMFAO at “Cavern of Mysteries” …..and yes I have an ass, it just happens to like penis ….bwah ha ha

  2. Since I think everyone’s in agreement on the topic at hand, I will direct my comments instead to the muscular blonde yumminess that is Cameron Foster.  If I could create my dream boyfriend or ideal man, he would pretty much look like this guy.  And he’s a bottom?!  Take me now, sweet Jesus!

  3. Once I had a guy while fucking me call it a “man cunt.”  I asked him to pull out, I got cleaned up and I left.  Total mood killer.

  4. yup I don’t get it myself. Why call it something it does not even resemble? The other term I don’t get is “seeding”. I mean really who comes up with these terms?

  5. I’m not the biggest fan of this word either, but you can only say “”Fuck my ass” or “hole” so many times while trying to turn a guy on… What else are you really supposed to call it?

  6. Really?  This is the subject of a blog?  REALLY?  Give me a photo of hot man pussy over dumb ass drivel like this any day.

  7. Thank you for this! I don’t care if the guy is one of the hottest I have ever seen! If he calls his asshole by anything to do with a woman’s vagina then I won’t have anything to do with him!

  8. when i get chatting with a hot guy here or on icu2 or in real life, if he so much as mentions his pussy or cunt much less boy pussy, (worse still, wanting to get at mine) it’s all over no matter how hot he WAS. And what surprises me is the number of guys who refer to themselves as boy somethings when most real boys would be calling them grandpa!

  9. … the psychological hang-up most of us gay dudes have (unsaid) is that the hole that gives so much pleasure is also the hole that ejects the stinking material known as shit …. to enjoy anal sex, i think many of us create two compartments in our head, and we never let those neurones ever meet ….

  10. “mangina”, “man-pussy” and other variants gets my blood pumping in all the wrong places. anal users of these terms need to man the @#$% up, grow some balls and quit swinging their handbags trying to defend it! 🙂

  11. My boyfriend and I are pretty into Dom/Sub sex, we keep it that way for sexual practices, but other wise enjoy a very balanced life based off of respect.

    I like calling my asshole cunt, or pussy. And none of this “boy” pussy stuff, we use the terms “cunt”, and “pussy”

    we are both quite aware I don’t have a vagina, and we are also both quite happy with my masculinity, but he finds it pretty attractive that I’m the “top” (looking wise, etc) and that I submit to him in the bedroom.

    The slang we use just helps create stronger roles of dom/sub, and keep things interesting/compelling for us. I dont really understand why you guys have put your backs up or get so effing defensive.

    Im secure in my masculinity, and Im secure in my femininity. I dance, snowboard, rock climb, run, read, write poetry, and take it up the ass. Slang isn’t going to make or my break how I define myself, and I don’t understand why you guys let it make or break how you define someone else.

    To judge a person doesn’t define them, you only define yourself.

  12. Doesn’t bother me  either.  The only times I have called it a pussy or cunt was during a dom/sub  scene with a guy and it really cranked it up for him.

  13. Some gay men think they are women and have pussies. I heard homos on the gay chatlines all the time talking about their pussy or fucking their pussy. Disgusting……

  14. I think some top men enjoy the fantasy during fucking by referring to a bottoms ass as a boy pussy. I would hate to see some of these men’s prostate gland from getting fucked by huge 10 inch cocks all the time.

  15. Use to hate the term, I mean seriously? “you wana fuck my what??” Man hole, ass, anything but pussy or boy!

  16. This blog posting is inciteful of gay-on-gay bashing.  This is shameful.  Remember you big macho gay men without pussies wouldn’t be having any rights and sodomy would probably still be a crime in 50 states if it weren’t for those gay men/queen’s (with pussies) who stood up at the diner in San Francisco and at Stonewall in NYC and started fighting for their rights.  Very poor taste this blog and what is most disgusting of all is gay-on-gay hate.  Sheez…  No wonder fags will never get any real respect from the straight world if they can’t respect each other!

  17. I agree. Calling our assholes anything which compares them to pussy is taking away from our power. There are so many other silly slang options that we can use that focus on maleness. In that silly genre, I love the “man cave”. When it comes to sex, I like keeping it simple so “fuck hole” is best if you get tired of “ass”.

  18. I’ve hated those terms since the first time I heard them. I was kind of dumbstruck that anyone could be so stupid as to use the term “boi-pussy” or “man-pussy”.  It’s just so obviously wrong on so many levels.

  19. So, if a gay guy is fem, or likes to use mental devices, that makes him “disgusting?”
    Come on, don’t you think the gay community has enough hate? You don’t have to like the term, but don’t judge the people who do. That’s not cool.

  20. I prefer to have a guy fuck or plow my ass… unless it’s my ‘special time of the month’ when Aunt Flo pays
    a visit!  🙂  LOL

  21. There is no judgment involved in my words. If someone wants to be submissive, they are welcome to it.  Nowhere in my words do I make any judgment upon that. I’m talking about the words and what they do to us energetically. If you believe referring to your male body parts in a feminine context is emasculating, then it proves my point. If that what floats your boat, go for it. It doesn’t mean that personally have to like the term.

  22. i do not believe that i can care any less than i do right now, for-the-regards-of whether a bloake wants to call his arse a “boy pussy,” during an act of sexual congress.

    depending on the person, and on the context in which it’s employed, hearing boy pussy can actually be an above-average enticer for me.

    one thing is for certain: i’d rather hear a chap declare his ass to be a “mangina” 27-times over, while i attempt to fuck that part of his body, than to continue being subjected to the anti-non_white/-light_skinned_latino sentiment which pervades this particular blog.

    as what i saw occur with Ludi Lin.

  23. Words say it all…my babyboi likes for me to call him my whore n boi cunt…he LUVS it cause he told me so…also i like to say to him that i like to fuck his sweet ass…mangina is fun n funny so when the mood is light, i use that term as well…but the term pussy he despises so it is not used…but as for my lady friends, they tell me pussy is nothing…just do not EVER say cunt in their presences…it is all about words, language and meaning…

  24. Go Pussy…. its who u r on the inside not wot terminology u use… besides there r more important things in the world to b stressing over than gay-slang…

  25. I kinda feel these words have crept into use because it was the only way to get the gay4pay dudes excited enough to concentrate on the task at hand.

  26. i hate hearing someone who try to be dom with me to tell me to spread my tight pussy. im a man that acts like a man that will never be anything other than a man. i like manly things, thanks.

  27. I absolutely hate the term boy pussy. I fired a fuck buddy cause when I fucked him he always would say say ” yea fuck my pussy..fuck my boy pussy” and he claimed to be Bi too. Not a turn on..

  28. Boy pussy isn’t that bad. Once a top called my hole “rainbow lips,” and it really turned me on. I  really don’t care that much what a guy likes to call my hole or his, though mangina is terrible.

  29. I disagree. Personally I find it to be really hot when other guys call their holes “cunts”.  I like doing the same for mine during sex. Didn’t realize I was so alone in this 🙁

  30. What a stupid position to take.  For a bunch of people screaming for cultural acceptance of diversity and openmindedness, some gay men can really be quite opinionated jerks, – just like homophobes can be. 

    I’m bi and love to bottom. I also like girls.  Let’s face it, a lot of gay men wish they could be women at times, and there are a lot of times that I think it would be fantastic to have 3 holes to be fucked simultaneously. 

    For me, it’s about sex, and the sex is all about the large penetration of the small, the intimate sensual feeling of being inside someone else (or having someone else inside me), and the transfer of cum.  So for me, there is nothing “disgusting” about a vagina, especially tiny, tight and smooth.  I just wish I had one of those too.

    Get over yourselves.  I chose ‘boycunt’ as a username because it describes who I am, and because it was available.   If you want “fat stinking hairy pig-man” as a username, go for it!   I’m not interested, but I won’t be ranting against it on a gay sex website, of all places. 

  31. FTM tranny chasers use the exact same lingo to describe the people they like. If you’re going to use a term as jarring as “boypussy” you could at least come up with only one meaning for it; these kind of mishaps make it even more confusing out there.

  32. FTM tranny chasers use the exact same lingo to describe the people they like. If you’re going to use a term as jarring as “boypussy” you could at least come up with only one meaning for it; these kind of mishaps make it even more confusing out there.

  33. I absolutely disagree. Pussy, boypussy or cunt is just fine. It sounds much prettier and inviting than, “Fuck my hole, dude!” Believe me, I would much rather fuck a cute boy’s sweet, smooth boypussy than a stinky, hairy hole. Yuck!

  34. I been in the same situation. I had a fuck buddy top who would always be like “let me fuck your boy pussy with daddy dick”. I told him before I didn’t like the term boy pussy (just a personal preference) and it was a turn off for me.

    Why would I want to be compared to pussy and be spoken too like I’m 10…gross

  35. I think you’re reading to much into this…It’s just saying words that most gays don’t like. It’s no difference then a woman not liking the word cunt. Would you tell a woman who said she don’t like cunt that she is against feminism?

    I’m a bottom as well and I can say on my behalf that I have not ever wished I was a woman. I tend to think most gays don’t actually wish they were women…If anything, I find that statement to be more harmful to homosexuality then this blog haha.

    Anyways, it’s fine for you if you are bi and you find vagina to be appealing but to others who are gay it’s not the same. To you, Vagina causes arousal anyways I would assume, I don’t get that same feeling and to hear womens genitalia in the bedroom is kinda counter productive to me haha

  36. I think you’re reading to much into this…It’s just saying words that most gays don’t like. It’s no difference then a woman not liking the word cunt. Would you tell a woman who said she don’t like cunt that she is against feminism?

    I’m a bottom as well and I can say on my behalf that I have not ever wished I was a woman. I tend to think most gays don’t actually wish they were women…If anything, I find that statement to be more harmful to homosexuality then this blog haha.

    Anyways, it’s fine for you if you are bi and you find vagina to be appealing but to others who are gay it’s not the same. To you, Vagina causes arousal anyways I would assume, I don’t get that same feeling and to hear womens genitalia in the bedroom is kinda counter productive to me haha

  37. I think you’re reading to much into this…It’s just saying words that most gays don’t like. It’s no difference then a woman not liking the word cunt. Would you tell a woman who said she don’t like cunt that she is against feminism?

    I’m a bottom as well and I can say on my behalf that I have not ever wished I was a woman. I tend to think most gays don’t actually wish they were women…If anything, I find that statement to be more harmful to homosexuality then this blog haha.

    Anyways, it’s fine for you if you are bi and you find vagina to be appealing but to others who are gay it’s not the same. To you, Vagina causes arousal anyways I would assume, I don’t get that same feeling and to hear womens genitalia in the bedroom is kinda counter productive to me haha

  38. Bullshit! I love it! love it! love it! What’s in a name? People get turned on in different ways with different things, stop imposing silly rules for how others should have sex!

    You are such a hypocrite, self-righteous dictator. Take responsability for YOU being the turn off/bad sex and stop playing the whinny victim. If my boy pussy makes my men’s cocks hard (which it does all the time), I say it and ask for their babies! In fact, I just ovulated and I need to be inseminated soon!!!! I’ll make sure to tape it and post it here so you can see hot cock on man pussy action!

  39. Call it whatever turns you. Fuck what other people think or say, other fags included. You supposed to have and give pleasure with your man not follow stupid rules

  40. Poor darling! Your boy pussy must be in a sad ugly state of neglect, a true waste (pun intended) land LOL. Yeewww i just got a visual… gross!

  41. Agree, agree and agree. These are the bitter nuns who hate the fact that others are getting some and they’re not.

  42. I really don’t care what anyone calls it. What a waste of time to discuss such a ridiculous topic when we are still considered second class citizens. If we put as much into our civil liberties as we did bashing each other we may have had a different standing in society a long time ago.

  43. umm….actually as a bottom I have found that while I don’t understand why it always turns me on when my top refers to my hole as a pussy or a cunt. of course, the guys who do that tend to be the very best tops.

  44. umm….actually as a bottom I have found that while I don’t understand why it always turns me on when my top refers to my hole as a pussy or a cunt. of course, the guys who do that tend to be the very best tops.

  45. umm….actually as a bottom I have found that while I don’t understand why it always turns me on when my top refers to my hole as a pussy or a cunt. of course, the guys who do that tend to be the very best tops.

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