It’s been a CRAY CRAY week so far. The leader of the free world came out in support of same-sex marriage yesterday. Whether you think it was a completely calculated move or not, THE LEADER OF THE FREE WORLD CAME OUT IN SUPPORT OF SAME-SEX MARRIAGE YESTERDAY.  This was after North Carolina voted bigotry into their state constitution, AND we found out that John Travolta’s hole might be the hungriest since the Sarlac in Return Of The Jedi.

I’m getting married in October, and I feel like it’s all destined somehow considering what happened yesterday (Jesus, am I self-involved or what?).

LET THESE FLOODGATES OPEN. Fuck it, LET THEM BURST! Our time is NOW. Yes, I’m writing about gay marriage on the blog for a gay hook-up site, but some dudes are going to want to settle down eventually, right? Your president would like you to be able to do so. It gives me hope.

Anyway, this video demonstrates how I’m sure a lot of us are feeling today.

Does anyone else think sweatpants are sexy?

- J. Harvey

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By now, you’ve probably heard the crappy news about North Carolina. The state voted 60 to 40 yesterday to approve a constitutional amendment which defines marriage between a man and a woman as the only legal union recognized within state borders.

While this is surely a setback for marriage equality, time will show that the majority of North Carolina voters are on the wrong side of history. There will come a day when people look back on days like May 8, 2012 and think to themselves, “What the hell were they thinking?”

All in all, we can’t let this get our hopes down! With votes coming up in Minnesota and Washington, we need to push forward and keep fighting against hateful legislation of this nature. We have to continue believing that, one day, we’ll look back on days like May 8, 2012 and smile to ourselves, knowing this is all over. ::sigh::

- Dewitt

True, the ones that you WANT to reach are no way in hell going to see this post. But maybe if you pass it on?

This is the story of Shane and Tom, and why #EqualLoveEqualRights (use that hashtag if you share this on Twitter) is hugely important and what the human race should aspire towards.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to move up my wedding date.

#EqualLoveEqualRights on Facebook.

- J. Harvey

Watch the video after the break. Have tissues handy, and be prepared to feel anger.

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LOL this bitch (the one on the left). Sean Harris is the pastor of Glensford, North Carolina’s Berean Baptist Church. He recently gave his congregation a sermon in which he urged fathers to punch their sons if they see them acting effeminate. And if they have a “limp wrist”? “Crack that wrist.” Does this crazy motherfucker have kids? If so, DSS needs to be keeping an eye on the Harris household. His fucking son might mention he likes Glee and Pastor Sean will shoot him.

A recording of his sermon went viral yesterday. Here’s the scariest bit:

So your little son starts to act a little girlish when he is four years old and instead of squashing that like a cockroach and saying, ‘Man up, son, get that dress off you and get outside and dig a ditch, because that is what boys do,’ you get out the camera and you start taking pictures of Johnny acting like a female and then you upload it to YouTube and everybody laughs about it and the next thing you know, this dude, this kid is acting out childhood fantasies that should have been squashed….Can I make it any clearer? Dads, the second you see your son dropping the limp wrist, you walk over there and crack that wrist. Man up. Give him a good punch. Ok? You are not going to act like that. You were made by God to be a male and you are going to be a male.

Imagine being a gay or lesbian child sitting in that church when this probably closeted asshole starts in with this? Imagine if you’re transgender? I don’t profess to be religious, but I was raised Catholic and I don’t necessarily recall the part where Jesus tells his Apostles to punch effeminate children.  No offense, but organized religion isn’t always our friend. Especially when pinheads like Sean here start interpreting it because they’re insecure about their hidden need to blow guys.

He issued a non-apology, but followed it up with “I do stand by is that the word of God makes it clear that effeminate behavior is ungodly. I’m not going to compromise on that.”

Anyone in the increasingly insane state of North Carolina who needs to get the fuck out is welcome to camp out at the Manhunt offices here in Boston until you find a place.

- J. Harvey

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US citizen Alex Wiles (above) is for a proposed amendment in his home state of North Carolina that would define marriage in the state constitution as between one man and one woman, and would ban any other type of “domestic legal union” such as civil unions and domestic partnerships. Same-sex marriage is already illegal in North Carolina, but this would add the ban to their state constitution.

Someone in his neighborhood (in the video he says “near my house”) posted a sign asking the public to vote against the amendment. His response to the sign is after the break.

Please leave your opinion in the comments.

- J. Harvey

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