Hi Doctor,

I was wondering if you had any advice on what to do with a prince albert? I just recently started dating a guy that has one. He's the first guy I've been with who has one. I usually love to give head but I haven't to him because I’m not sure how to handle it. I don’t know how to begin. What do I do?

Piercingly Puzzled 

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Dr. Queerlove,

I’ve been dating a guy for about three weeks. He’s very sweet and we have fun. I enjoy our dates and hang out time. In bed, I would rate him as below-average. But that isn’t the problem. I’ve dated men in the past who’ve needed help in that area, and I have no problem teaching them. The problem is that he has a small penis. It’s less than 4 inches, which would be fine if it were thick, but it’s rather thin. The second time we had sex it was so bad, I lied to him and said I thought we were moving too fast, just so I’d have an excuse to hold off sex (at least for a while). I know that’s wrong, but I couldn’t even feel him inside me.

I recently broke up with someone who I was deeply in love with, so it’s nice having this guy to go out with, but when I travel for work I don’t even miss him. I just don’t feel sexually attracted to him. Is it the penis? Jesus, I just can’t do anything with that!

Help me!

Unexpected Size Queen

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Dr. Queerlove,

So, I've had a fuck buddy for some time now. Through it, he's always had a boyfriend.

Our chemistry is great and we are very attracted to each other, although we've only ever shared sexy time.  He and his boyfriend recently broke up. I was wondering if it's at all possible to move beyond fuck buddies and have any kind of meaningful relationship?  What do you think?

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Dr. Queerlove,

I am 20 years old and have just started having sex. This might be a dumb question, but what’s some good music that I can play when I have a guy over for a hook-up? The last few times I’ve had the television on in the background, but a commercial with the Sham-Wow guy can be a real boner killer. And the news isn’t really a turn on. I’ve tried having nothing on at all, but I don’t like it. I have a few song ideas, but would love to have a few more. Help me out with some good suggestions!

Thanks,

Gay Sex Is Awesome

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Hey Dr. Queerlove,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months (he’s 23 and I’m 19). Things were great at first, then we started arguing. He loves going out, which I usually don’t have a problem with it until recently. He’s been going out with people that I’ve never met and when he’s with them, he never answers his phone. Late one night, after coming home from going out and while he was showering, he received a text message from “John the bartender” saying “Last night was great” and that he was a “great fuck.” I was furious and stormed out of his apartment feeling angry and sad. He told me it was a joke played by one of his friends. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and took him back. Now, before this whole text message incident, I caught him posting on craigslist several times. Additionally, for Valentine’s Day he accepted very expensive gifts from his “friend” who he knows is in love with him. He has told me he doesn’t have feelings for this friend, and that the craigslist ads were taken down.

Well this past 4th of July weekend, we were supposed to spend the weekend together. I got tickets for us to watch Blue Man Group. He told me he had to work all weekend and had to cancel. Then I see on his Facebook that he left for Fire Island (NY) the night before. Every time I called him his phone went straight to voicemail. He promised that he would spend the holiday with me.

Several people have told me to “kick the loser to the curb”. Those same people have told me that he frequently makes out with guys at clubs. To make matters worse, while searching online I found his X-tube page, including a video he recently created… in my underwear. Jerking off and spreading his hole for everyone to see.

When he got home from Fire Island he said he was sorry, that he just really wanted to spend the weekend with his friends. I really want to accept his apology, but am I being stupid? How many times must I forgive him? I love him, but I don’t know if I can trust him. My heart says give him another chance; maybe he will change. However, my head is telling me to dump him and move on with my life. I’m really torn. What should I do, doc?

Desperately in Love

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