Have I ever told you how much I love eating ass? It never fails to get me rock hard, and I always enjoy the sight and sound of my partner moaning and squirming in complete ecstasy. But in order to achieve that level of pleasure, I had to learn one simple lesson–rimming is much more than licking someone's butt.
Use your hands. Particularly if rimming is a prelude to fucking, your partner will be much more relaxed if you massage his ass cheeks, inner thigh and upper leg. Try a bit of light spanking. Take note if he responds to this, but don't overdo it. A finger and tongue combo may drive some guys crazy, so experiment with alternating between the two. Since it's likely that lube won't be involved, both your fingers and his hole should be wet with saliva.
Get the right position. Much like fucking, this will depend largely on preference. Personally, I like to have a guy on all fours or lying on his stomach. On the other hand, I certainly wouldn't turn down a guy who wanted to sit on my face. It's up to you!
Get creative with your mouth. Unlike blowjobs, you can use a little teeth (emphasis on a little). Try gently nibbling on your partner's cheeks, or even just simply licking them. It doesn't have to always be about the hole. Lick his taint, legs, balls, crack and so forth. Experiment with different modes of licking–flick your tongue, lap it up or keep it rigid. And it may sound silly, but try moaning or humming while your face is pressed deep in his ass. The vibrations from the sound will drive him wild!
– Dewitt
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Rimjobs are definitely underrated. I like to get my guy on all fours and work the hole and cock simultaneously, switching hands and mouth periodically. Of course, other positions are good, too — lying down, 69, on his back, him sitting on my face, etc.. My personal favorite move is licking all the way from the hole to the glans, teasing behind with a stubbly or bearded chin.
You forgot one important spot, though. The only way I know to describe it is where the asshole meets the taint. There must be a bundle of nerves or something there — it seems to drive most guys (including me) wild when you tease it. I usually lightly flick it with my tongue or possibly my fingertips.
Oh, yeah, and don’t forget to make sure you’re both clean down there. Just another benefit of starting things off in the shower.
Excellent tips Dewitt and furfiend…
One of the things that seems to drive guys wild especially if they are new to being rimmed and/or getting fucked is to tease them…the back of the ball sack, the taint, and I like to slide the tip of my tongue up close to his hole and then follow the crinkled outer edge around one side up his crack and the other side back down…just catching the outer edges of his hole…until he is bouncing or actually trying to push his hole to my tongue…then you pretty much know you’re on easy street getting into his tight pucker…even then sometimes, not to be mean, but to drive him into and even higher frenzy, I will just draw wet circles around the outer edge, once he can’t stand it anymore I alternate with teasing the opening with the tip of my tongue and switching to licking with the entire thing with my tongue flat…eventually, I’ll just drill him with it, and he goes wild…almost never fails!!!
….fuck, all this talk – I think I’m gunna blow!
OMG..Dewitt, I just LOVE making a guy moan and groan by eating that hole out…nothing and i do mean NOTHING drives me WILDER….MMmMMmmMmMmM…ASS anyone????
And always use two hands like Armpad does in the picture!
I actually did just this last night with my guy. Nothing but 2.5 hours of me working his hole with my mouth, tongue finger and a combination of the three at once. I could not believe it when he told me a while back he had never had a guy just spend the evening working his hole. He now loves it when I am in the mood to just lick, rimm and play with him. I get great pleasure from doing this and a lot of the time that is all i need for the night and still feel like it was about me too cause his moans, him pushing into me in pleasure and even when he pulls away a little cause it is too intense all lets me know i did a good thing.
The sight of Arpad rimming gave me instant wood – and I’m at the office! How inconvenient LOL.
You could have used a better RIMJOB pic…u can barely see the guys ass and how round it is.
Btw….what is everyones thoughts on blowing on the asshole? I’ve seen it on porns and i’ve done it to guys, but never had it done to me…anyone know???
Also….the rim-ee should move their ass around as well and push into the face and push their hole out as well.
Gently blowing on a guy’s saliva-coated anus or cock can produce an intense cooling sensation that can feel really good, especially juxtaposed against the warming sensation of the mouth. You can sometimes get a similar but stronger sensation by having a little mouthwash or one of those Listerine quick-dissolve strips in your mouth. Just a warning, the mouthwash option may be a little too intense for some people, and there’s sometimes a delayed reaction.
(I’m starting to feel like Dr. Ruth, here. 😛 )
Wow, I’ve never been rimmed – I had NO idea there were so many guys who liked to do it so much! Where ARE you all?? LOL
When I rim my hairy boyfriend’s ass, I first rub my nose and stache on his pucker with sniffing and snoring sounds. He love’s it. Then, with the tip of my tongue, I explore the edges of his anus, tickling more and more the upper one, until it swells and becomes rigid, reddish and sensible as a clit. After what, I probe my tongue in his musky hole, suck and drink his assjuices.
I go from soft kissing and licking, to deep french kisses. When I’m underneath a rim-seat, tongue penetrates deeply.
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