Even the strongest men can be blinded by lust! Every now and then, you come across a guy who’s so good in the bedroom, you’re ready to walk down the aisle right after. It could be something as simple as a kiss, or the way he looks into your eyes as you vigorously drive your cock into him. Whatever it may be, he’s got you wrapped around his finger…
Of course, this leads to a whole other series of questions! How do you know if the feelings were mutual? What if you’ve already established a “no strings attached” clause? Should you tell him that you’re interested in more than casual sex? If you’ve ever been in this situation, be sure to leave a comment and share your experience.
– Dewitt
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i love the surprised look on the bottoms face in the last pic.
i’ve been on both sides of the rainbow in this situation and it’s never pretty.
I had this bottom who rode my schlong like he was born to. And his moans were hypnotic. His asshole was immaculate – I could eat it for weeks. But to him it was just a fuck and it drove me nuts. But I moved on.
Then I had this other guy I fucked mercilessly a few times. It ended one night with us both drunk and me goin in raw – which I rarely do. But since I was in raw I made the best of it, going on and on and making sure I got my money’s worth so to speak. But he then got it in his head that since we fucked without a condom we were an item and would not stop calling or texting me. I tried to let him down easy but he’d end up stalking me a little on Manhunt and FB. It got scary when he followed me to campus one night and went to a party at my frat house – he was in his late 20s and I was like 20.
Anyway, yeah I agree. A good fuck can confused with love.
I’ve run into this situation a before…just because my dick gets hard for you, doesn’t mean I LOVE you.
I have felt instant love for a guy – we hooked up at his place. I knew he was cute from his pics, but when I saw him in person, he was drop dead gorgeous! Arabic, about 5’7″, shaved head, dark beautiful eyes, fantastic, tight little body. And the ass – oh the ass. I actually wrote poetry about it. We had the most passionate sex ever. We were seeing each other for weeks, but then he had to leave for Saudi Arabia. I was so in love with him from the first – but then my heart was so broken. Ahh, love.
It wasn’t the first fuck that brought love. I thought it would be a one time hookup, but we ended up with much more. Love grew as we continued to see each other. We’ve been together for 29 years now!
I’m kind of in this situation right now. My partner and I have been together for 4 years, we have an open relationship, and several months ago I met a guy online and we hooked up. It was (and still is) the most mind blowing, eyes roll to the back of your head, almost pass out from the climax sex every fuckin time! It’s like this guy’s ass was made for my mouth and my dick!
Anyway, it’s gotten to the point now where we’ve started talking and hanging out, and it turns out we really get along well, on top of the great sex. But, I still have my partner (who doesn’t know about the emotional connection that’s started) and I’m feelin like shit about it.
What I got with the new guy isn’t love, I know that, but I’m startin to think that there might be something there worth exploring, but I am in love with my partner, even though our sex isn’t anywhere near as good.
It’s a fucked up situation no matter how I cut it.
Im with a guy right now, we started with a total random hook up, but continued to explore a friendship.
Now (a year later) it’s kind of messy, we’re friends, and we fuck multiple times a week; it is the BEST sex I have ever had. However, I think we are both fooling ourselves that we can keep this relationship where it is. Lately we have been cuddling, etc, going on dates, yet we’re “not” dating. Anyways, long story short, it was the sex that opened up everything else. It was so perfectly intimate, yet wild and reckless at the same time that it was clear we had something in common allowing us to connect that way.
SO…. love at first fuck? I don’t know, but sometimes I think really good sex changes your perceptions.
I’ve totally been there – actually I am there now.
We hook up about twice a week, we do nothing except fuck, it is always a good long session(making out, sucking, fucking, rimming, ect), and when we finish we chat for a bit and then go our own ways for a few days. It is a casual no string thing that we agreed on, but if he asked me to be his “boyfriend” I might jump up and down and scream like a little girl. Still I knew what it was from the first time I went to his house, and i knew it was the same last night when I was there.
Happened to me once before. Things got really weird so we just stopped seeing each other all together. He sends me messages every so often but they’re brief and just to ‘say hi’. I don’t know what’s going through his head or why he does it since I never initiate conversation with him anymore. Kind of a shitty situation.
The bottom bears a strong resemblance to James Marsden of the X-Men films (or maybe it’s just wishful thinking).
I’m in that situation now—the way we looked into each others’ eyes, the way we kissed before, during and after I took his cock. We cuddled and talked for a while about various things regarding our lives after; then went at it again for over 2 hours.
*big sigh*
have you asked your partner about three-some?
me and guy hooked up i fell in love he didnt want to commit now he does but with another guy just around the time i started school again and hes dating a guy around my age and hes commited to him guess it was just bad timing i do hope i get to be with him one last time b4 we just become friends only
Are you sure that he doesn’t feel the same way?
What an excellent argument against open relationships!
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
God, you’re right! Ohhhh, James….
dru got married recently (to a woman). i’ll bet it’s an interesting relationship.