Though some guys make it look really easy, there's a very specific art to being a good fuck. Even if you're the most dominant throw-him-around top in the world, we highly recommend letting your bottom choose the first position. By handing over the reigns for a while, you'll have him comfortable and turned on enough to try any position.
Some guys like to start by riding your cock, so they can control the speed and placement. Some guys like to be plowed right from behind, while others just want their legs thrown up in the air. It's a matter of preference, and you should respect that! If you ask your boy how he wants it and he responds "however you want it", then you can skip right ahead to your trademark moves. That is, if you're Diesel Washington… have you heard about "The Chalice"?
– Dewitt
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bottom line…no pun intended
the bottom is always the one in control. let him take charge and then go with the flow, he,he,he
nah, the top should be in control.
cos it’s sexy. and a turn on.
(speaking as a bottom)
I actually prefer a little balance. As a bottom, I tend to like to be in control. On the other hand, there’s a definite hotness to him getting into it and taking over. Plus, you never know when he’s got a hot new move up his sleeve.
Usually there’s a natural shift in dominance from bottom to top.
Most of the time I, the top, tend to stay in control all the time but I’m CONSTANTLY checking in.
I think rimming the bottom deeply for 30 mins to an hr before penetration helps that though! LOL
Notice how you can’t see penetration in these pics. I wonder if they were wearing a condom or not … hmmm….
I let the bottom start off with control, and like said earlier, there is a shift where the top is king, and then you just drill away!
Gonna side with the article as an (overall) bottom. Let me get into it and comfortable, then we can let loose.
I think the balance of power depends entirely on who the participants are.
Personally speaking, as a vers/top, I enjoy letting power slide back-and-forth (double-entendre entirely intended). To my mind, the best tops are the ones who don’t mind ceding control, and the best bottoms are the ones who don’t mind taking control. Things can get so much more interesting when we don’t pigeonhole ourselves into cut-and-dried roles.