An Interview With Aleks Buldoček: Making His Own Family In Porn & Nightlife

Aleks Buldoček is an award-winning escort who’s starred in Raging Stallion‘s Timberwolves, Open Road and Hung Americans, among others. Buldoček—the spelling on his Facebook profile has the haček over the C—took some time out of his busy schedule to answer some questions about his bulking up, his personal life and the best scene partner that he’s had so far.

Also his tattoos, because how can you not.

– Lawrence

Photo credit: Raging Stallion

Read what Aleks had to say and see more pics below:

Can we talk about your tattoos? How many have you got, anyway?

I couldn’t actually count, really. How many does a sleeve really count for? My first was my punk guy on my shoulder, which I’d like to build around soon, but haven’t yet picked out anything yet for the job. My favorite is actually my spool and needle on my calf. It reminds me not to throw things away so quickly. Try to mend what I can first before tossing projects or things or relationships aside.

On your fitness Tumblr you mention wanting to add ten pounds a year until you’re 35. What’s the inspiration for that?

It’s always been a fetish of mine since I was younger. I remember watching Batman cartoons and getting really excited when Bane would pump up huge. Ten to twelve pounds a year is a sustainable goal for my body, and I plan on competing and getting into the super-heavyweight division. I couldn’t really explain the drive much more than that.

You’re not really a newcomer to porn at this point. Who’s been your favorite scene partner so far?

My favorite scene partner will probably always have to be my first. Shawn Wolfe was such a pleasure to work with and was very handsome and level-headed, which is the perfect type for me. He made my first scene comfortable and fun, and I probably wouldn’t have done many more if not for that.

Between escorting, porn, and go-go dancing you definitely do a lot of physical work. Any favorite activities that aren’t related to getting sweaty?

Hahaha… Not too much, really. I enjoy bodybuilding and dancing in the club a lot, whether I’m paid to or not. I guess non-sweaty things would include watching movies, going to nice dinners or just cuddling on the couch to reruns of Family Guy.

You live in Chicago, where IML happens every year, and that’s also a big part of your personal life. What is it about leather that’s a big turn-on for you?

The smell, feel and look of it are the major turn-ons, of course. Aside from the very physical, though, is the community and sense of family that is built around it. I’m a big fan of the RuPaul quote: “We as gay people get to choose our families,” and as someone who isn’t particularly close to my bio-family, it’s important that I build that for myself.

You describe yourself as a natural dom. What do you like about having control, and how far do you like to push your subs?

I only use the word natural, because Domming is something that just comes to me very organically. I enjoy leading the scene, but I know that I can only go as far as my sub can handle. In that way, I enjoy taking my sub along for the ride, and I’m happy that they can let me push as far as they’re willing to go during that scene.

What are the most common misconceptions people have about you? And do guys give you shit for doing porn and escorting?

My size and my ink definitely pigeonhole me as a rough and tough top/Dom, which is fun and great, but people don’t expect me to be as nice and grounded as I am.

I’ve gotten some hate mail before, but I don’t pay mind to it, and from the people I care about they accept my choices. If they didn’t then they probably wouldn’t have gotten so close to me anyhow.

And are you single right now? In a relationship? Somewhere in-between?

I’m in a committed open relationship with my Daddy, Paul Steele, who recently proposed to me. I said yes, and the pup/boy that I have collared to me is very happy with it as well. I get pretty monogs when I have a collared pup, but it’s important for him to understand my work is separate from my personal life. I’m lucky to have such an understanding fiance Daddy and a pup in my life.

Any exciting plans for the summer?

I’ll be dancing and hosting several parties for World Pride in Toronto including Pitbull and Steamworks. I also expect to have a great time in my hometown of Chicago for Market Days, and I’ll probably finish off the warmer weather with the Folsom Street Fair, which is just my speed.

Tell me one thing about you that I’d never think to ask you.

Well, I like sushi, horror movies, the color green, electro-pop music, and I’m not a big fan of people who take life and themselves too seriously. Once my porn and nightlife career is done, I plan to go back into clinical social work. Life is too short, just have fun and enjoy it.

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