Just a few years ago, I could sit down at my computer, pull out my dick and enjoy myself for hours watching safe, responsible fucking. (Okay, sometimes it was more like three minutes.) I had grown accustomed to the magically appearing condom and figured short of the fringe porn, this was just the way it was going to be.
But then my world changed. I stumbled across Chaos Men. It had all the hallmarks of your standard guys fucking guys, except wait, there was no condom. It was bareback! It was more than I could take watching these guys fuck like fucking was meant to be. Then, the next thing I know, there’s Sean Cody, Corbin Fisher, Fraternity X—all gloriously free of condoms.
When I scan Manhunt Daily and see a post about some new porn video with some really hot guys, I get excited… But then I watch the preview, and there’s a damn condom, my heart deflates along with my cock. Before you hate on me, maybe this is just another sign of emerging equality? Straight porn stars have been fucking condom-free for years.
As for me and my porn enjoyment, when it comes to bareback, there is no turning back.
– Adam
Photo credit: Chaos Men
Check out Bentley and Solomon in a new bareback scene below:
Watch this full video (and much more) at CHAOS MEN.
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EDITOR’S NOTE: Adam is a real Manhunt Daily reader who contacted us recently suggesting that we write an article about this topic. We suggested that, since he felt so strongly about bareback porn, he should write about it himself. If you, too, would like to write a guest column or make a suggestion, shoot us an e-mail at contact@online-buddies.com for consideration.
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Here is the thing with porn: The more you watch, the more extreme it needs to be to gain/hold your interest. I don’t hate you, but I do feel sorry for you.
P.S. What you consider equality is more like an abandonment of common sense and social responsibility in the interest of profit. When straight people are infected with HIV at the same rate that gay people are, then talk to me about equality. But whatever works for you, dude. You and your orgasm are what’s really important here.
Actually, your snide orgasm comment aside, what’s really important is education and informed freedom of choice. Life is risky, at varying levels, from crossing a street in traffic to hang gliding to rodeo riding to racecar driving. As long as people make informed choices, I’m okay with that, and spectators who enjoy watching the spectacle, whether it’s bareback porn or a NASCAR race, ought to be allowed to do so. And for those who argue that HIV ends up burdening our health care system, so do motorcycle crashes and parachute failures, among thousands of other activities that can lead to enormous medical bills.
And what’s the point of publishing this shit?
Well I watch a LOT of porn. It’s pretty much my only companionship these days outside of the people I talk to at work. And not to put to fine a point on it, I don’t care if you hate me or not. This is who I am and I think a lot of people are FAR too repressed about it all. Go to Europe for a while – most of the peeps there don’t underswtand porn because they weren’t flooded and badgered by the proper social convetions that exist in the US and England today. Prudes! LOL
Sex is sex and I have never liked watching condom flicks because I know they’re 99% likely to pull out and jack off. I get it, it’s for the camera. Fine. That’s why I have accounts on various amateur sites where I can watch **real people** having intimate, intense sex. No condoms. The only thing I don’t get is why so many sites title their videos as breeding when it’s only a cream pie. You pull out, you jerk off, then you slide it back in. Sorry, not breeding. Nope.
Even Sean Cody has taken to getting his models consent to letting hot fuckers like Jarek bare fuck and breed his bottom models in the videos. Yeah, I pay for those! And hell I might even pay Jarek to make me his bottom bitch (if I were wealthy.) And I make no excuses.
I’m with you, Adam, I feel very strongly about this, too. I want to see the real thing and the whole thing! If you’re going to make an amateur video and you pull out and jerk off to cum, why the hell bother? You could jerk off alone at home. LOL If you’re going to do it, enjoy it all the way through, man!
That’s my story and I’m…. stickin’ to it!
Nobody seems very concerned by the fact that these behaviours inspire young gay people who do not have any other kind of sexual education ( high school sure isn’t going to provide it) and think this is fine now that we don’t SEE people dying from AIDS anymore ( they’re still out there though, it just isn’t a trendy topic).
And before you start your bullshit about imitating murders in movies, going out of your way to grab a gun and shoot someone is different than forgetting to put a plastic on your cock to keep you from getting incurable diseases.
What you are watching most of the time is broke young men trying to make a few bucks who get rid of the condom because of the money incentive to do it.
And the guys who imitate them certainly don’t take the high end PCR/RNA tests for early detection that Chaos/SC/CF use, in fact most of them are not tested at all :)) What do they say? “Me? I’m clean!” before they proceed to bareback and possibly infect others.
But thanks for publishing it a month after 4 porn actors became HIV+, we will make sure to satisfy your needs, “Adam”.
Yeah, I’m very much of two minds on the subject, I enjoy the films, obviously, sex is hot, and there are various taboos and freedoms of restriction that can make BB porn interesting to watch (like many types of fetish material), but unlike a lot of fetishes there are definitely some dangerous inherent problems with this resurgence of the genre being normalized in porn material.
I can live with it being a fringe thing, but I feel like no one should consider it the “norm” or even at all a recommended practice. Skydiving may be exciting, but it’s also incredibly dumb and reckless and for the most part the only person who can be directly harmed from it is you. Nothing in life comes without risks, obviously, but there’s no excuses to encourage the kind of mistakes that can quite literally have life-long ramifications not just for that person, but everyone in their lives, in a wide variety of ways.
Just like a lot of young straight dudes can easily be given a ton of bad ideas about sex from heterosexual porn (and they do, just ask basically any sexually active single woman), so do young gays. Most of whom weren’t even alive during the real panic/frenzy of the early AIDS crisis days and can’t truly comprehend that… I’m starting to wander from my point (whatever it was) but in general, porn ≠ reality, kiddos. Play safe. Be smart. Make good decisions. Obviously no one can make decisions for what anyone does with their bodies for them, but at least take the time to really examine the risks. And I don’t think many people TRULY understand those risks and what they entail…
(There’s also the inherent creepy factor of encouraging young men to put their lifelong health at risk, often for nothing more than a cheap thrill… but that’s an entirely different moral conversation that I don’t think anyone wants to have…)
Not sure just how ‘burdened’ our health system may be by parachute failures. And most states have passed ‘helmet’ laws to reduce the impact of motorcycle accidents. But you’re right. There are millions of irresponsible people out there doing all sorts of stupid things for which they expect someone else to pay their bills. But I’d rather not, thank you very much.
Loving (and preferring) bareback porn lately but it has no impact on my real life sexual encounters (aside from visualizing it if the guy isn’t doing it for me).
Some of the stuff I used to find very hot doesn’t do it for me anymore because they’re wrapped up. That said, I don’t demand bb of models and I truly hope they’re all safe.
The only thing I have to say is I do not condemn anyone for taking risks be it sexual or other wise I just expect those that do own up to what may come out of it.
I prefer to watch BB porn personally because that is how I have sex with my husband and find it intimate and a turn on.
But if an “ADULT” see’s this and feels it is safe and there is no need to be tested for any STD’s or STI’s and never share that info with who they are having sex with then they are not taking responsibility for their actions. And others who do BB just because they like a guy or he is so hot it is not funny are not being “ADULT” about their choices either.
If you at least ask to see their test results before hand it shows your “Adult” enough to make the decision to do BB or not with a stranger. I do not care if it is a mood kill if they are an “ADULT” it will not insult them nor kill the mood!
I. Me. My. I want. It is all about you, isn’t it? And why shouldn’t it be? By your own admission watching porn is for the most part the extent of your social interaction. I’m the first to admit that your preferences are absofuckinglutely none of my business, and that even when you actually use such juvenile fratboy expressions as “cream pie,” “breed,” and “bottom bitch” to describe the sex acts you set as the standard to judge others as prudes. It really is your own business and fuck me if I make inference about your intelligence and maturity based upon your vocabulary.
But since when are you the final arbiter as to what kind of sexual activities are “the real thing?” How do you know that the porn models who pull out and jerk off don’t enjoy it “all the way through?” A large part of the “reality” of your “real” sex is that it exponentially increases the likelihood that it’s participants will transmit HIV and an incurable disease that is more or less (and sometimes not) manageable through the use of life- and lifestyle changing permanent medication to be paid for by everybody else as it costs far more than most people could ever afford.
And just for ironic chuckles, you recommend that porn producers who don’t want to make your vision of “real” porn can “just jerk off alone at home.”
Like you.
LOL Well, you understood most of what I was getting at, for sure. Let me ask your opinion.
What is another short and well known term for ‘breeding’?
What is another short and well known term for ‘cream pie’?
What is another short and well known term for ‘bottom bitch’ (mind you, this isn’t a simple submissive role, this is a submissive role who likes to feel like he’s being used during/for sex.)
And yes, as you noted this is my opinion. You have yours he has his, I have mine, she has hers, and this is a forum for just that. The topic at hand is Adam’s article. The comment section is for anyone to post anything. The Reply option is for anyone to reply to anything. And yet, we still give each other shit for various personal beliefs, feelings, lifestyles. I’m no different, just as guilty as everyone else… I’m only saying that you’re right in your assumption of me. Yep, my previous post was all about me. And that’s how it was meant.
Now the only thing I think you misunderstood is that I did not suggest that porn producers can just jerk off alone at home. And, for the record, while I do like bareback sex with someone I know and trust (though there aren’t any guys around these days who fall into that category), you infer that, “my reality of sex” is risky. I have condoms and lube and towels and toys and I use them.
Lastly, regarding the inference that I’m somehow less intelligent and/or mature for purposely deciding to utilize terminology that yes, even you understood immediately whether you like the word(s) or not, I think tha’s a little short sighted, man. Because, as you see, I did purposely choose to use those words; they provide the mind an instant picture of the reference in one word (or two in the case of ‘bottom bitch’) without the need to describe the act in its entirety.
To be honest, I appreciate your post and I wish you could have thought about mine a little more before you responded. But as you noted; I, me, my, mine… that post was all about how I felt. So we’re good. 🙂
I’m not making an attempt to be negative, I only want to suggest this:
After so much about this in the media, going around at school and college, talked about by friends and family, and even right here in your post (and several other posts), the idea that a few short porn flicks are responsible for spreading HIV is not entirely accurate, now is it? Read below.
Yes, high schools provide all kinds of sexual information. Teachers aren’t the only people a high school age child learns from, remember. Teachers, friends in school, friends out of school, bus drivers, the people talking on the street, parents, friends’ parents, classmates, television, radio, commercials, books, magazines, nature… these and so much more are where kids learn and there are lots of references to the negative possible consequences of sex in general, including unprotected sex. So to claim that these places are responsible for a young person getting HIV, Syphilis, HPV, Herpes, etc… they only share the responsibility. And so does every movie where actors are having sex on the screen. Just sayin’.
And don’t forget seat-belt laws. The government cannot control sexual laws behind closed doors, hell they can’t even catch every motorcycle rider who’s riding without a helmet in a state that requires it, or a seat belt law infringement, or prevent that guy from climbing up a rock mountain with nothing but a bag of chalk and his hands and fingers. Look at sodomy laws still on the books in some states… you KNOW that’s going on in them thar homes! 🙂 And NASCAR? LOL What about when you attend in the front row and you’re hit by flying debris?
Information really is key and there’s plenty of it out there. It all a matter of personal choice and therefore personal responsibility – something the people of this country show too little of. :-/
These 2 can take turns breeding me.
I think it’s pretty sad if it needs to be bareback to get you off.
I’ve watched BB porn, but I have never paid for it — and never will. I can’t reward that companies for asking their performers to risk their health. Frankly, I don’t get the demand for BB porn. I guess people actually find it sexy that people could catch a communicable disases. Or do some people think a thin layer of latex is altering the way a guy’s ass or dick feel while fucking? Actually, I think the condom actually leads a smoother fuck — and BB looks uncomfortable to me.
I think the form of imitation I’m talking about is more akin to adopting a certain language or making certain clothes trendy through music videos and stuff. Not having a condom does not look dangerous ( this is why the “imitating murders in movies” thing is irrelevant), and now that it’s overtaking porn, it normalizes the behaviour completely so yes I stand by what I said it has an influence on the perception of condoms and HIV among gay people who are WAY more affected by this disease than their straight counterparts.
I will bet that gay and lesbians are far more aware (and purposely make themselves so) of the current info on HIV. That sadly shows that we don’t know as much about the other STD’s as we should! But that’s another post. Straight people seem to be more caught up in “HIV is a gay and druggie thing.” no matter how many times they see the information out there.
And to your other point, desensitization is a big factor in the progression from, say, the early colonies, to the wild west, to the 50’s and 60’s to 2013 in every corner of society. I know I was perfectly content to look through the Sears catalog as a kid When I got older and found my dad’s nudie mags, I looked for the pics with men in them (simulated sex acts). For a while I was content with text/stories. Then it was only pictures. Then motion video. Then it HAD to have sound or forget it! (So far, all either simulated or very low quality and highly focused on the parts in motion, not the whole scene. Then, with the advent of things like XTube and TUBE8, I found real men with real men engaged in very, very intimate sexual activities without condoms and ejaculating inside the other, or swallowing completely. I can watch other videos, but they won’t do as much for my internal heat as the bareback breeding or swallowing vids (with sound). 😉