What happens on a business trip, stays on a business trip! Time and time again, I’ve heard this sentiment echoed by straight and gay friends alike, who exempt themselves from the rules of fidelity when they’re out of town for their jobs. While it’s debatable whether this philosophy rings true, we’re here to talk about something else.
Have you ever used a work trip as an opportunity to get frisky?
A new town means new meat, and this can be particularly helpful if you’re traveling from somewhere with slim pickings. One of my pals from Maine always complains how he can never get any dick. Then, he came down to New York to do some consulting work a few weeks ago, and oh man, if only I had the time to relay the details of the sleazy foursome he had in his hotel room… Six loads were blown, and one of the guys stayed overnight to blow a few more.
On top of that, my married buds cite business trips as a stress-free time for man-on-man sex, without having to rush the occasion or worry about the missus. I know from my earlier years in the closet that it sucks to sneak around, so I can sort of sympathize with their predicament (though a few of them, not mentioning any names, should really leave their wives if they love cock so much).
I’ve also noticed that some men are particularly drawn to partners who are “just visiting”. There’s no expectation afterward that you’ll ever meet again, which can appeal to a certain type of commitment-phobe. You simply show up, have a good time and part your separate ways.
What are your thoughts on this topic? Do you have any specific experiences you’d like to share with the rest of the class?
– Dewitt
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So I was at a conference hosted on the UCLA campus when class was not in session. It was nice… the dorms were very hotel-like… a couple of days in, I was bored as hell and horny, so I started looking around online and found this guy who was totally what I was looking for.
He was tan as hell, pretty, with just the right amount of hair everywhere. He was just getting off work as a server, but was only doing that while he went to auditions… just like every other pretty boy in LA.
I got him up to my room and we made out, and had some pretty excellent sex. Never saw him again, but still think it was one of the hottest encounters I’ve had.
So I was at a conference hosted on the UCLA campus when class was not in session. It was nice… the dorms were very hotel-like… a couple of days in, I was bored as hell and horny, so I started looking around online and found this guy who was totally what I was looking for.
He was tan as hell, pretty, with just the right amount of hair everywhere. He was just getting off work as a server, but was only doing that while he went to auditions… just like every other pretty boy in LA.
I got him up to my room and we made out, and had some pretty excellent sex. Never saw him again, but still think it was one of the hottest encounters I’ve had.
absolutely…..had on muscle stud that i fucked against the hotel window while another guy in his car watched. ranks as the top experience to this day
Dewitt….where can i see pics of you man???
Part of the joy of a business trip is contacting guys in advance and spending as much time as possible in another town having sex with locals. You can also get some really good advice on where to dine and what to see.
Hot scene – PHAT ASS DUDES ARE THE WAY TO GO FOR PORN
I often look for a nice jo session and have gotten real lucky with some good looking guys. One time even had some fun with a coworker while on a job, bj’s all around. We still work together but don’t do any naked time. One place I met with the same guy several times. He was real hot and aggressive about our activities. We only jo the first time but it progressed to lots of body contact, some kissing and some oral. Man that was hot, wish I could go back to him again. That’s the way the business hook ups work though.
I don’t go on many business trips, but I used to have a lot of sex in my office back in the day. Those undergrads just loved to fuck my face and ass…
I did hook up with another Married Man when out of town on business. We arranged to meet at my hotel when I was in his town. Kissing lead to fucking (safe sex). It was so good we kept in touch. Months later he was in my part of the country and we spent the late afternoon to next morning sucking and fucking each other. We each came 4 to 6 times and we are in our mid-50’s.
If only my chem professor was like you. I’d fuck him for A with no hesitation.
San Francisco May 2011……set up a meet with a young latino man who liked older men……Came to my hotel and we played for a few hours but we both didn’t cum….We fell asleep in eachothers arms and we woke up and he fucked me silly until filling me up…..then he sucked me off…….we showered, got breakfast,,,,,kissed good bye on the street….very hot night with a very hot and nice guy…….
Sure, I’ve hooked up while on business travel plenty of times. The real trick–so to speak–is doing so when traveling with straight colleagues staying in the same hotel, even the next room.
I’ve been lucky to meet some nice, good looking men over the years while on business trips. Some were just for making out and JO, others progressed to oral and some wanted to get fucked. It all depends on the chemistry. It’s really cool when there’s a hot connection and there’s opportunities on future business. It’s all about setting things up in advance, sharing accurate pics and making sure you’re into the same things.
Hmm – I was in Atlanta – leaving the checkin – and getting checked out by this guy on the same floor as me. I hadn’t been there more than 15 minutes and we were naked in my room…….what a welcome!
Hmm – I was in Atlanta – leaving the checkin – and getting checked out by this guy on the same floor as me. I hadn’t been there more than 15 minutes and we were naked in my room…….what a welcome!
Hmm – I was in Atlanta – leaving the checkin – and getting checked out by this guy on the same floor as me. I hadn’t been there more than 15 minutes and we were naked in my room…….what a welcome!
Had a business trip in London this summer. 7 men. 3 in 3 days at one point. Amazing.
Some of the best sex I’ve had has been on business trips. Had business in DC and met a Pakistani kid who gave me the best head of my life. Did business in Dallas a while ago and got fucked six ways from Sunday by an ex-Cowboys defensive lineman in my suite. There’s just something undeniably hot about business trip sex.
I’m from the midwest. I’ve had some very hot sex while on business trips to L.A., New York and Toronto. Of course, I was unattached at the time.
More about this ex-Cowboys defensive lineman, please!
More about this ex-Cowboys defensive lineman, please!
You are so right, finding that right match and being honest (and careful). What do you like to use when finding people to set up things in advance?
On a business trip to our branch in Toronto a handsome young man took an interest in me. He was second generation Indian, his family originally from Mumbai. Dark skinned with jet black hair, coal black eyes and a million dollar smile, he gave me his number when we were alone in an office. That night I called him from my hotel. He came right over and we kissed as soon as he got in the door. A few minutes later we were in bed, our clothes strewn on the floor. I was in my late 20’s, he just out of college. We fucked half the night and slept the other half, waking each other up over and over to do it again and again. A memorable night.
I hooked up on a business trip. Met this guy on the site. He was safe and we fucked for a couple of hours and my hotel room. It was great.
I’m a married bi-guy who has fucked many businessmen traveling through my city at their hotel rooms near where I work. When you’re the boss, it’s a little easier getting away in the middle of the day to play. Although the best hotel sex I had was when I fucked a flight attendant who was in town just hours before he had to be back at the airport. He was only wearing a jockstrap and I had my suit on the whole time…very hot sex. When our office was a little more private back in the day I would occasionally coax an intern into my office and get them on their knees while I smoked a cigar. Risky, but oh so worth it. Those were the days.
how i can meet him and where ?