Is it weird that, as a gay man in his late-twenties, I actively want someone to call me “daddy”? This might not come as a surprise to anyone who read last year’s “Hot or Not: Going Gray” post, but I’m not overly concerned with looking, feeling or growing older. If whilst pounding an 18-20 year-old college boy or my future husband Rich Kelly, he called me “daddy” and begged for me to ram him harder, you wouldn’t catch me running to the mall afterward to pick up a shopping bag full of anti-aging products. I’d probably go home to brag about it in a blog post on Manhunt Daily.
But that’s where I am right now. I fully recognize this could change over time.
Some people, of course, feel weird being called “daddy” for reasons that have nothing to do with age. Reasons like this. I’ve always found that silly when the word has become so common in m4m hook-up vernacular, but I understand the sentiment! That’s not what you want to think about while you’re having sex… Or maybe it is. Who am I to judge?
All in all, how do you feel about being called “daddy” in a sexual setting? Is it a turn-on, or does it make you uncomfortable in any way? Do you necessarily have to be older than your partner to be a “daddy”, or is it more about an attitude and a sense of confidence in bed? Discuss amongst yourselves, and feel free to bring in other questions and/or concerns related to this topic.
– Dewitt
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love older men, and i do find it hot in porn when they call em daddy….but in person have never said it as i dont wanna offend someone hehe….and i hate being called son thats a turn off for me
Well, as you know, Dewitt, I am an old troll. And I do not find it hot for a guy to call me “daddy.” If I am in a sexual encounter with someone the last thing I want to be thinking about is a daddy/son relationship (or being reminded I am old enough to be his father). That is a real turn-off. But that is just my preference. I know others find that hot, but it’s not for me.
Oh call me Daddy and my cock gets harder– but you do not have to be technically young enough to be my son– not what it is about
Not. While I’m technically able to be a daddy, I’m really not one. I’ve had a couple of people attempt it, but I end up kind of being half-hearted about anything we’re doing from then on.
I ain’t your daddy– I’m the one ramming my stiff cock into your tight little hole while you beg for more. If that’s what you do with your daddy, then yuck.
And Tyler Saint is a fucking sex god
Daddy/papi are hot if the guy can pull it off. I’m no where near old enough to be considered a daddy though
I’ve had the reverse problem lately: I want to call all guys “Daddy.” Now, some guys are totally into it. The problem is I feel weird doing it if the guy is close to my age (although if he is taller than me, it could work…). There are guys between 35 and 40 though where it’s a lot more natural. Of course, the guy has to be into it for it to be hot. If it turns him off, I’m not gonna say it. If an older guy (just meaning older than me) wants to roleplay Dad/son, though, I am not going to say no.
i got called a daddy recently in bed by a 36 year old…im 27. soooooo …it was pretty hot. i think its an authority thing. at least thats what it felt like being on the receiving end of it….not the cock, the name.
Having recently moved to Denver, I was shocked to discover that by and large the men here didn’t have sufficient psychological maturity to enjoy uninhibited sex and intimacy until they were past the age of 50. So I ended up seeing more than one man who was as much as 15 years older than me and found that both the social and sexual connections were hot, fun, and much richer than I expected. In the course of playing with them, some of them wanted me to call them “daddy” which I found kind of silly but what wasn’t silly was that it turned them on and became a fun and arousing game for both of us. So as long as it didn’t get to the point where I really thought I was dating my parent, I was fine with the fun and the role playing…
I think the “daddy” thing is super hot. I’m in my early 30s and it’s a big turn-on for me in bed. But it’s only hot IF the guy can pull it off.
Never been called “Daddy” in a sexual situation. Years ago I was called daddy when hanging with friends at a bar. Not sure if it would bother me since I’m at that age where I could actually be one.
I’m a 59 single male and date guys 18 to 40-something. I never ask them to call me anything other than my real first name. Sometimes they ask me to call them by some pet name, and I am happy to do so. In text messages or in bed, sometimes my date calls me “daddy” or “papi.” I’m not offended. On the other hand, being called “daddy” or “papi” doesn’t rev my engine unless the date is saying it to get himself turned on.
Unfortunately, I am a Daddy, or to be more accurate, a Granddaddy. I did not discover my enjoyment in man to man sex until I was in my mid-sixties. Do you have any idea how difficult it is to find a willing sex partner at my age? Even those that are my age want younger–way younger–sex partners. If there are any guys out there that want to share the pleasure of man to man sex with a senior citizen, I wish they would find me. Because, although I am pushing 70, I am still ready, willing and able!
As a 52 y/o I have absolutely no problem being called Daddy!
I have learned to embrace the “Daddy” moniker, even though it freaks me out. All I know is that lotsa hot 20-somethings who wouldn’t give me a 2nd look 20 years ago now are ALL about me – and if letting them call me “Daddy” is what I gotta do to get the prize, then “Daddy” it is!
I`m 54 years old and don`t like to be called daddy, In my mind it`s somehow connected to all those young twinks who figure that, as you`ve reached a certain age, you have all of the material things they need ,so they`re willing to be with you, but it`s strictly mercenary. It would make me feel like a foolish old man, probably with someone younger than I should be with.
this topic should be left to guys who understand that the terms “Daddy” and “boy” refer to relationships, situations, or scenarios, where they are typically used, are a mindset that the individuals have. Daddy is dominant figure. Boy is the submissive role, it really has nothing to with biological age (Unless you wanna fuck your son or dealing with Daddy issues-thats another topic though) The terms are a form of respect in those types of relationships. Also, it’s not meant to be considered a paternal thing like most of the posts here are defining it. History of this is deeply rooted in the Leather & BDSM Community. It may sound silly to some who don’t have the mindset or just don’t understand that there’s more to it then just saying the words for the sake of saying it, but usually there is some communication and agreement as to whether one calls the other Daddy and one is referred to as boy.
When I meet guys, they ask me what should they call me, sometimes, not always though. And I do the same too, just out of respect for each other. Like someone said below, you don’t want to offend someone, so discuss it (along with other things you might discuss when holes are a puckerin’ and cocks are a throbbin’ 😉 if neccesary. Sometimes, the labels just don’t fit the mindset we have. Lately, I’ve been finding that big bro and little bro are better suitable between me and my buds.
love daddy talk. i’m in my early 30s, and find attraction to older men is so hot!
i agree. in my early 30s here as well, and i LOVE having an older man to play with.
Um, I’ll get in on this. Want to E-mail?
Well, that’s a whole other angle that never occurred to me, mostly due to my ignorance of the leather and BDSM community. Great insight.
I actually think the term (when used in the context of whimsical sex-play) is a turn-on…As someone who’s been blessed to date guys 20yrs my junior, I’ve gotta say that as long as these hot young gents see something of interest in this funky, fortysomething artist, they can call me anything they want!–lol–
I am in my early 30s but i look like im in my early 20’s its that latin blood baby lol but all jokes aside if im getting fucked i love to say papi harder or daddy its hot daddy to me is dominance it means he is having his way with my ass and making it his..as a top i love to be called daddy when im pounding someones hole because it means i own it to me ..its all about dominance and control thats how i take it
I really don’t like it! Part of my feeling may be due to sexual abuse as a child, but there’s nothing that will soften my willy quicker than to hear the word “Daddy” while I’m getting busy. If I’m lucky enough to find someone younger to fuck (I’m 56), then I’m going to fuck the shit out of my him. It’s not my son, it’s a partner, a date, someone to share a great time in bed. It won’t ever be my child!
the first time somebody in a sexual situation called me “Daddy”, my dick went limp. Suddenly I felt very old. (I’m 50). I referred to eligible older men as Daddy when I was in my 20’s, but hearing it used to describe me was not something that I was ready to hear, I guess.
I love my daddies! Lol!
i love calling older men daddy i jus get off on it so much