How Young Is Too Young For You?

41 thoughts on “How Young Is Too Young For You?”

1. I’m 44 and the youngest guy I’ve ever slept with has been 21. The sex was okay—though I had to tell him that there wasn’t a prize for whoever finished first but the kissing and the body exploration was amazing. However, the next morning, he complained about how low I had the music while making breakfast and then had no idea who Ella Fitzgerald was (she came on during the “random mode” of my iPod). Fun…but I wouldn’t do it again. However, I think it was more him, than his age as I remember hooking up with a 24 year-old when I turned 40 and he rocked my world.

2. i am 27 and have never hooked up wit one person younger then me was 18 and was horrible very show n tell sex………i like guys in their 30s to 40s they are awesome

3. I’ve had a couple of 18 yos, With the 1st, I was 34 and he was just a few months past 18. I was his 1st time and taught him it was okay to feel great about his body. 5 years later I had another that I had no clue was only 18 until I saw his ID, He looked 28 – 32 and was a great lay. As long as they are consenting adults, age is just a number.

4. Lets face it an eager 18 yo can both be fun or a drag!

   Now if they pop fast and just want to run away of course it was a waste of time and effort.

   If they put in a lot of enthusiastic energy and want to go for hours and try it all ya baby why not!?

   It is different now a days young guys can find someone to mess around with easily and have a lot more experience than we older guys use to at their age. They do not have to hide and be as careful about approaching others as we use to.

   So I see nothing wrong with giving them a chance as long as they do not play games about it and show an ugly level of immaturity some still have at that age.

5. If he’s young enough to be my son, he’s too young – that’s just creepy to me. I get young guys wanting to be with an older guy (me) but I can’t bring myself to do it.

6. 18??? he has a 30 year old face and his hair is receding and combed over

   he isnt hot, and frankly anyone mid20s or below is not for me… nothing to talk about, boring, puny and inexperienced. i like men thanks. stop trying this disgusting paedo stuff please

7. Let it breathe manhunt…You’re doing this just a few days after your incest comics, it’s getting creepy.

8. as a 18 yo myself who enjoys older man I’ve learned that age is a total number. I’ve slept with guys who could be both my dad or his older brother, and I never had any of them having issues with my age due to the simple fact I don’t display it, both socially or sexually. therefore, no, there is no too young, but there is too immature and unexperienced. bubye.

9. awww I like you a little bit more now :3

10. it was totally him, if you care so much for someone’s attitude and knowledge as well as culture level, then take your time to chat them up, I’ve been with 40 something dudes who had never heard of Fitzgerald, and I felt even worse than you did since they had much more of an obligation to know.

11. I’m currently 21, but the youngest I’ve been with was a 16 year old, as the legal age of consent in Norway is 16… The whole thing was awkward, as it was a first time experience for both… But hey, his cuteness made up for it.

12. All you fucking older creeps ruining sex for guys just turning 18. You know how most guys say their first time wasn’t special, because you fucking pervs had to ruin it for them. Just because you missed out on sex at a young age because being gay wasn’t as socially acceptable, doesn’t mean you can regain your shattered youth by hooking up with guys that could be your own children, who clearly have daddy issues. How would you like it if your son fled off to another mans arms and then he fucked him. Most of you are no better than a catholic priest. Fucking pisses me off how you think its ok too because they are now “consenting adults” when most are still to young and immature to know what they want, and you take advantage of that whether you are willing to admit it or not. Shame on you.

13. i’m 22, have never been interested in guys younger than me, barely interested in guys my own age. 99% of the time i only pay attention to the 30+ crowd. ususally up to 50 years old. i like men, not boys. i have a man’s body, always have. it is quite alarming seeing how quickly old men (50+) pounce on you because they think you are young, look like your 12 years old, and assume you are willing to fuck anyone. they don’t read your profiel, and have no idea what you look like! creeps!

14. I’m at an odd place. I’m feel like a time portal at times. I’m 30 and like men in their twenties & in their forties. I also can talk to both. I love video games, comic books, & current music. So I can talk to younger guys. Then on the other hand I like documentaries, keep up on the news & political stuff, I also love classical music & oldies. I’m very eclectic. I have always said if a psychiatrist listened to my music on shuffle they would swear I suffer from multiple personalities. Lol! It would go something like Pink, Etta James, Beethoven, The Animals, Ray Charles, Christina Aguilera, Justin Timberlake, Ella Fitzgerald, Mozart, 10 Years, Aretha Franklin, Katy Perry, Metallica, Bach, Ben E. King, The Platters, The Ink Spots, ZZ Ward, Kari Kimmel, The Black Keys, TLC, Salt N Pepa, etc. See? It’s a mismatch of different eras & genres. So I tend to be able to blend with different ages and personalities. My taste in movies is just as varied as my taste in music. So no, I would not turn down an 18 year old. I would just need to be sure he is 18. There can be some who look much older than they actually are. Which is why I tread carefully with those younger than myself.

15. Also if an 18 year old told me he wanted me to be his first, I would be flattered but would turn him down. I’m still a firm believer in your first time being with someone you care about. Not just being with someone who is more experienced.

16. I can still remember being 18ish, and being grossed out by significantly older guys (at that point, that meant over 30) who came on to me — and I swore that I’d never be one of those “older guys”. So to me, at age 55, “too young” is under 40.

17. i’m 22 now, and i’ve been with guys as young as 16 and as old as 40-something (i don’t check their age, i rarely get their name) and i’ve found that it’s all indevidual some guys might be older but totally dull in bed, other times we click really well and have really great time, so if they’re sexy and you know it, screw ’em

18. Can’t wait till YOU’RE an “old creep” and see how that snotty attitude goes for you. The many, many younger guys I’ve fucked have ALL gone after ME not vice versa. I didn’t “miss out on sex at a younger age.” In fact, I learned a great deal and that’s what the young guys I’ve encountered are after. The “hotter than thou” types like yourself I avoid, since they are invariably NOT very talented at sex. Usually encounter them a few years later, out of shape, trying to pick up SOMEONE.

    Your screen name gives away YOUR issues by the way….

19. For a boyfriend, they have to pass the “Boyfriend Paternity Test.” That means their father has to be older than me. I realize that this sets different standards for 2 guys the same age, but it has to do with how they perceive me. That’s a little different than young enough to be my son – what is that – 15 years…or less! I’m not going to tell someone who is 42 (you do the math, 42+15…) that he is too young (no matter how good that might make him feel). But, the question isn’t really “boyfriend,” is it? 18? I don’t usually look for guys that young, but if the situation presented itself and the guy pursued me…why not? He obviously wants to find out what sex with an older guy would be like. Who am I to deny him his curiosity. Oh, but in addition to being 18 (legal) he has to be out of high school (you can stay in HS until you are 21). So a guy who is 19 and in HS as opposed to a guy who is 19 and out of HS – I know, it’s just a technicality, but…he could be sittin’ in class next to a guy who is 14. This time it’s how I would perceive him.

20. Well, while I do enjoy the energy and openness to try new things with young men, I’m generally only into them for the sex. I’m 38 andbeing twice as old gets in the way, maturity wise. That, plus cynicism and life experience is a huge obstical.

    I’d definitely write that age of consent is the lowest I’d go for pure sex, but that’s it. I need someone I can relate to; and as much as any of us thought how mature we were at that age (I’m 18 but mature for my age), I now know… bullshit. Ya ain’t 🙂

21. Ahh, I was wondering when some bonehead would break out the “p” word. 18 is generally accepted as adulthood. To keep writing that appreciating a young MAN is pedophelia is quite frankly tiring, boring, and insulting. Also, making fun of his hairline? Dude… seems like you need to do the growing.

22. I agree wth you for the most part… and while I do, I still feel that life experience is a huge deal. Sure, you probably know more than I do about certain things, but unless I were able to sit down and talk with you in person I probably wouldn’t be able to date you for too long. Again, not really YOU specifically, if you catch my meaning.

23. My general rule is half my age plus 7. Don’t ask me where it came from, but it works. It’s always great sex and great conversation normally.

24. First of all, I think arbitrary rules are stupid. What’s more important? Whether he’s half your age plus seven years, or whether you have mutual attraction and mutual interests?

    As an ephebophile (which is neither a mental illness according to the APA nor illegal to act upon in my country) it is precisely the characteristics of youth – other than the physical ones, energy, less cynicism, adventurousness and a generally healthier and more optimistic attitude towards life – which attract me and complement my own differing attitude. I couldn’t care less whether they’re ‘good in bed’. But I also recognize their potential immaturity and even lack of defined sexual orientation, so I always seek to be sure that they ally the best that their age has to offer with an intellectual and emotional outlook beyond their years. It doesn’t happen every day, but some special people have it.

    Being 20, it also hurts me to see older gay people turn to the defensive simply because the p word gets slapped around a lot by conservative critics. It’s none of my business or my concern whether you prefer men, not boys; but calling other people creepy because they don’t share your tastes is selling out and pandering to the majority, akin to black people criticizing gangsta culture for the image it gives their community. I hope to become an older man one day and while I’m aware that many younger guys are attracted to them, I also know I’ll have to deal with a chorus of naysayers – other gay people supposedly on my side – even though an extra 20 years of experience and maturity won’t have turned me into some predatory animal. Sure, there are laws (in America), but if all laws were immutable and guaranteedly correct where would Mankind be? And where would gay people be? Older figures of the Gay Rights movement, like Harry Hay Jr., spoke openly and honestly about these issues.

25. When I get to a certain age I will date age appropriate people. Please shut the fuck up, you pedophile.

26. *than

27. Being part of the older crowd when I was hooking up I would have a policy of not going under 30. I was mid to late 40’s at the time. My actual age was clearly stated on my profile so when a guy younger than 30 wanted to hook up, I did have a few of them, they also pursued me. We talked before-hand and I made sure that they we clear about my age before we did the deed. I don’t remember how good/bad they were. Now that I’m over 50 I would probably not consider hooking up with anyone below 30 no matter what they wanted.

28. I’m 22, and I won’t date anyone below 25. I don’t want to waste my time with the whole “finding myself” crap. I want a guy who knows what he wants. Most kids don’t.

29. What’s the ” p word”??? Americans and their damned censorship!

    Probably the most vulgar nation that ever was but they censor words when they write, how ridiculous.

    Edit: Ok I got it…Another extremely creepy guy on this blog.

    THe “Sure there are laws” part is unfortunately very telling, and laws are there for a reason, when you get arrested for being the p word…have fun in prison.

    “P word” people are generally not very appreciated over there.

    Disgusting, and you still see yourself doing this 20 years from now…:s Probably paying some poor kids in some third world country for their “services” . Disgusting, I hope you get caught

30. You should seek treatment before it’s too late for you and for your victims, you are a sick person.

31. I’m 26. I am a bouncer/bartender and Also in training to be an assistant manager at the store I work. I refuse to date anyone under 24 and they better have most/all of their shit together. I prefer older guys, they know what they want.

32. Fucked 20 all the way to 47…its all in the chemistry and legality…if they want to get my cock deep in them and they are cute and fun, age means nothing…what adults do between themselves is their business…

33. If your IQ were any higher than a rock’s you would know that pedophilia is a mental illness involving sexual attraction to pre-pubescent children, which is not my case. I regularly act on my creepy urges without having ever broken my country’s laws or coerced anyone into them, and they are not considered a mental illness by any of the same psychiatrists who don’t consider homosexuality to be one either. That being said I’m not sure what your problem is, other than severe lack of reading abilities.

34. you are just gross. you are preying upon innocent children for sex and taking advantage of them. i don’t know what country you’re from, and quite frankly, i don’t care. however, that’s just despicable behavior. they are children. you should be ashamed of yourself and seek help. the fact that you have to try to justify it in lengthy paragraph and pull in past activists is telling. i totally agree with the above posts. you will wind up nothing more than an old perv messaging younger guys to be “generou$” if you’re not doing so already. what a terrible way to live life.

35. When I turned 40, I had more 18-20 year olds hounding me for fun. Who am I to turn down horny young guys who like my cock and are more than willing to share their cocks and mouths and some amazingly cherry holes with me? Sure, there’s some misfits out there who are bad in bed, but there’s also some amazing guys who can only get more and more amazing as they age. And I have sex with guys my age, older and in their 20s and 30s, so I like it all. 😉

36. If that’s your criteria for a 30 year old face and a combover, let’s see you. 😉

37. What do you want, a cookie? Fucking do what you want to do and leave everyone else to decide who they want to be with. Fucking punk — who died and made you the moral compass of the gay world?

38. Unless the guy was raped, BetterThanYou20, your diatribe is pointless. The 18 and 20-year-olds who hit me up (let’s repeat that…hit ME up) seem to know *exactly* what they want. Sounds more like sour grapes from you, kiddo. Personal ax to grind!?

39. I’m 29, and I won’t take a guy home if he’s under 21 – if I can’t at least take him to a bar, I feel like I’m babysitting.

40. you should have eclectic music tastes anyway.

41. You cannot possibly be as MORALLY BANKRUPT as your comments make you out to be but if you are than I PRAY that GOD should grant you longevity in hopes that someday you will realize your ignorance and become WISER WITH AGE !!!

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