Why are so many guys afraid to tell their boyfriends, husbands or other romantic partners that they like it ROUGH? There’s nothing to be embarrassed about! Relationships are about honest communication. If you need a little spanking, dirty talk, face-fucking and relentless ass pounding to get off, let your man know before you’re shacked up together developing blue balls, completely miserable with your sex life. He’ll probably think it’s hot… Unless he’s a slut-shaming bastard, and if that’s the case, why the hell would you want to be with him in the first place?
I’m bringing this up ’cause Dean Monroe plays a horny businessman who’s not getting what he needs at home. While traveling on a trip for work, he hooks up with a burly bartender (Colby Jansen) after closing time, finally getting the abuse and attention his ass so desperately craved.
This (wholly fictional) situation could have been prevented if Dean had just been open about his sexual desires with his (wholly fictional) partner! You see, this is what happens when relationships don’t include clear communication. Colby Jansen fucks you in a weirdly-decorated bar. And you like it. A lot.
– Dewitt
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Watch Colby give Dean what he wants below:
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I will never EVER get tired of my rugby-stud Colby J. Preview looks hot.
Never LIKED Dean Monroe !!!
Well, just look at the discussion going on in the “hot or not: butt shaving” thread. I think the problem is that not all guys see aggressive/rough/violent sex in the same way. If you say you liked to get spanked, does that mean you want a few playful swats or do you want your ass beaten with a leather belt until there are welts? Obviously one would hope that in a serious, long-term relationship, the partners would be more open and honest about their sexual desires, but it can be hard to bring up with a hookup or a FWB.
On a separate note, these are two of the hottest men in porn having dirty, nasty sex and I love it!
4/5 for roughness during the foreplay
2.5/5 for roughness during the fucking.
Expected a rougher seen. Would masturbate to again.
I think it goes a little beyond not all men seeing aggressive/rough/violent sex in the same way, although I largely agree with you. That discussion is a perfect example. It’s not just a matter of not seeing desires in the same way, but also the fact that many men look down on people who enjoy rougher forms of sex. These men criticize and try to shame people who like that. It’s one thing not to see desire in the same light, it’s an entirely different thing to shame. It’s all well and good if you don’t get or don’t enjoy or don’t like rough sex, but don’t try to make other people feel ashamed that they do. And I think you’re right to point out that there is also spectrum of roughness (if you will). Ultimately, it appears that there’s a lot of fear and nervousness on all sides. People aren’t sure if their partners are into rough sex and might shame them or maybe the partners are into causing welts when all you want are some light raps on your ass while you get fucked. Or whatever. But as Dewitt points out, being open and honest with your partner will mollify many of these issues.
Colby Jansen is SO sexy! I would love to bend over for that man.
He’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but he’s good bottom and he knows how to get a good performance out of a top. I have a couple movies of his where he’s partnered with a few Czech G4P guys, normally those scenes are awkward as hell (it looks like they’re fucking to a metronome), but he makes it work.
The fact that he’s been consistently working since the 90’s is amazing in itself.
Interesting thoughts. I’m kinda new to this and guess I’m not experienced enough to know what’s going on out there in the larger community. Thanks for sharing your experiences (and I agree with what you say).
hot hot hot hot hot
love dean but colby omg hes so hot just wow hehe
That Dean Monroe can take some dick… Plus he’s gorgeous… <3
Dean Monroe is one of the men of my dreams… right up there with Shawn Wolfe…