Just last night, the Doctor met up with a friend of his for some good ol’ sub/dom oral play. Naturally, when I sat down to write this week’s tip entry my mind raced with visions of sugar plum cocks, being given some head.
I have heard from many people that no one can give head like a gay man. After all, who would know how to service a dick better than someone who knows how they want their own dick serviced? That being said, I have come across some mos whose cock sucking abilities could be compared to waterboarding (how is there anyone out there who doesn’t know that teeth should play no part in fellatio?!).
That being said, there is one blow job maneuver that eludes even experienced cock suckers: deep throating. Try as we might, some of us just can’t seem to overcome that bitch Mother Nature and her fucking gag reflex. So if you start resembling a bulimic runway model after taking more than 5 inches, fear not! The doc has a handful of suggestions that could help improve your deep throatin’ skills so that you too can someday do this.
For Doctor Queerlove's suggestions, follow the JUMP:
Just Breathe
When going down on your man, take a deep breath in as you take him in your mouth. Hold it there for a minute, and then exhale as you pull back. You might not be ready for a deep face fucking (taking it in all the way and getting your throat rammed are two different things), but you gotta start somewhere!
Elongate
Optimize the cock’s passage by elongating your neck. You can do this by hanging your head back over the edge of a bed or couch so your neck is straightened out. This allows the cock to go pass the curve of your throat and deeper into you. It should also help alleviate the gag reflex.
Work with the Curve
If blowing a guy with a curved dick, make sure his curve matches your throat. A guy with a downward curve is easier to deep throat because his dick will go down much easier. Try upside-down fellatio for a guy with an upward curve.
What other deep throating dicks can our experts share for our novices? Let’s help the dick sucking community by educating each other! This way we can all get better head.
– Doctor Queerlove
upward curves are the worst..
a friend of mine massages the guy’s next, rubs his ears, etc while he’s getting head.
i personally like to see a dude gag so i shove their heads all the way down on it!
I usually take my hand & wrap it around the base of a longer dick & move the hand according to my sucking his dick. This helps in not taking ALL of a long dick, and the guys seem to be satisfied.
Guys are always saying, “Yea, that’s right, take it ALL THE WAY IN!” I love pleasin’ my man, but sometimes it’s impossible to take it all in.
Larry, no offense but that technique doesn’t pass mustard with me lol. I’m pretty average sized, but there are only two people out of the 40 or so guys I’ve slept with who could ever deep throat me! I really hope more people read this article and give it a shot, I’m tired of getting bad head!
Amen Matty Amen! Sorry boys try no hands eh?
I must be in the minority then, because I have never had a problem swallowing cock. I have been able to deepthroat from almost the very first blowjob I gave, and he (my first) was big too. I remember reading just before I gave my first bj that you should practice using a banana until you got the hang of it. I did that, and I’ve been deepthroating ever since.
Bananas are soft and break easily; deep-throating one is not a good idea. Practice instead with a nicely sized dildo.
Two tips I find that help take in that last bit of cock are to stick my tongue out and lick the guy’s balls, and apply a little bit of force to shove the rest in. Once you’re able to take in the whole dick a few times, your throat loosens up a bit and the gag reflex diminishes over time.
Personally I analyzed it and came to the conclusion that the gag reflex is based on the subconscious thought that you’re not gonna swallow something (hence you don’t get it when eating) so I just began thinking that I WILL swallow the dick and that made it a lot easier.
who said teeth isn’t allowed!?
personally, love a bit of teeth from my partner when getting blown…. but ay.. i’m one of the wierder ones i guess.. seeing as i like it rougher then most!!
And it’s a tap on the right butt cheek if he’s killing me (ie. choking me when he’s making me gag on his cock!!) 😛 love it!
wet wet wet ..get that dick good and wet …i’ll have a drink of water before sucking a really big cock and man it just slides down smooth. even a fat throat stretching head will go as far as it can if you get it nice and slopping wet …try it like that.
also there is nothing wrong with a little gag now and then.. makes even a small guy feel big.
Ultimately, I think if you’re new to it (as with all new things) find someone who will be patient with you, and start slow. it’s just like bottoming for the first time – take your time, get the feel for it, stop and take a break if it hurts, and with practice you get the hang of it. Soon enough you’ll discover the joys of having your man’s junk snuggled up to your larynx.
Here are a couple of things that I can share…
One is relax, just decide its going in and like one of the guys above said, after it has a few times, your throat seems to relax, and so does the gag reflex…
I have no idea why, but it seems to help for me to wrap my fist around the guy’s balls, for some reason it just goes in easier, but once I’ve mastered it I let them go…love to have big hot nuts slapping my face…
Another thing that helps…like one of the guys above said is get it wet…well don’t be afraid to use some tasteless/odorless waterbased lube, that seems to help too…
Any of you ever seen any “Gag the Fag” videos, I don’t know where it comes from, but after deep throating a guy for a while, my thorat gets all kinds of its own lube going…not like some of them in the movies, but there is a lot of slickness coming from somewhere…
Does the doctor care to comment?
Waynesnboro Va area..Looking for a real fag? Well, you’ve found one..Text or call 540-241-7671..I’ll come get you and get you off where you are..I deepthroat and swallow..
I have one big Curved down cock!!
I want some teeth – that kick is so sexy 🙂
when i decide its time to deepthroat my man, I have to keep a good mental attitude about it…and that is I’m going to take his cock down my throat – if I doubt I can at any moment I usually gag far too much and then work on the top half of his cock good. Just as one of the guys said above, but do it slowly. If you think he’s about to blow just pull him out some (or all the way) and let it flow. I always love letting my men cum in my mouth.