There are some guys who like their balls tugged on, chewed or thrown off a bridge with weights attached to them. With that said, every man you sleep with won't necessarily fit into that category, so you should tread with caution when handling those sacks of cum-filled goodness.
Occasionally someone will be so sensitive or nervous that they don't want you to go near their balls, but you can test the waters with one simple move–lick his balls. Before or after sucking on his shaft, try flicking your tongue over those bad boys. If he seems to be reacting positively, take it one step further in a gradual fashion.
In other words, don't just jump straight to swishing them around in your mouth like some Listerine. If you take a look up and he seems to be uncomfortable, move on to another area of his body. Think you know more about licking and sucking on balls? Share your secret tricks in the comments.
– Dewitt
I actually get uncomfortable when guys munch on my balls. I feel like I have to trust them before I let them do that act.
If someone’s not competent enough to have the sense to check in before doing something, they should not be having sex in the first place.
I HATE it when guys bite my nipples. Same thing with balls. Lick first. Then intensify the sensation gradually. Sometimes I’m shocked at how unaware grown men are when it comes to something primal and basic and sex.
I totally have to agree with the wonderment of how some grown men don’t understand that it is not always okay to jump in and start chewing my balls. I my case they take a bit of warming up before I am comfortable with more than some licking. But to me worse then the balls is guys that assume just cause they love to have their nipple feel like they are being bitten off that I will too. I hate having my nipples played with at all, and I have had a guy tell me when i stopped him that I should just go home if I don’t like having them played with.
What is it about gay guys that seem to bite your nipples without asking first? Quite a few have done this to me. Is that really a turn on to them? Is it supposed to be a turn on to me? Do straight guys bite women’s nipples.
Mine are a stay away zone. They are so overly sensitive if you even just touch them wrong it feels like someone placed a swift kick there and i feel ill.
Hmmmm . . . not that I’m advocating going to town on the balls and the nips first thing . . . but come on guys, if you’re that off of having anyone touch them, then hey, come on, COMMUNICATE it from the get-go. You’re not 17 anymore (at least I hope so if you’re in here, haha). How about when the clothes start coming off . . . start with mentioning 3 or 4 of the things you really enjoy – that really get you off – and then mention that hey, you’re really not into having the balls sucked on or your nips touched. That kinda’ approach doesn’t come across so harsh as just right out and saying “touch my sac and I’ll rip your balls off”, haha. And again, it’s all about communicating to your sexual partner (whether 1st-time or repeat partner) the kind of things that really get you goin’ and will make for a hotter sexual experience for the both of you. Really, communicating isn’t that hard – it’s all about opening your mouth before something else goes in it 😉 . . .
maybe we should discuss the whole cock-sucking thing first?
you know, it is given pretty much as a must by porn industry (gay or straight), but is it really that necessary? we are so accustomed to it that not doing it would be like breaking ‘the sex law’ or something.
give it a though and then go on discussing ball licking and watersports etc
“he looks uncomfortable”
this is like impossible for most men to see >.>
THANK YOU. I’ve had far too many hookups with guys who just went right in and started gnawing. It personally turns me off when something hurts, so I am not game for this. But if they had taken the time or *gasp* asked, it would’ve been all good.