Vampires may be trendy thanks to Twilight and True Blood, but that doesn't mean you should act like one in the bedroom. Though we have nothing against a good ol' hickey swap, it's not exactly advisable to start biting on a random hook-up's neck. Some of us have learned this the hard way.
I didn't discover the joy of hickies until my college years. Believe it or not, this occurred in a fraternity house. I was drunkenly making out with this hot preppy kid, with our bodies pressed tightly against the wall. A faint moan came out of my mouth as he began to nibble on my ear, and even louder noises emerged came out as he lowered his bite onto my neck and turned up the intensity. The rest is all history. Well, history and a blowjob.
Because of this experience, I made the assumption that everyone must be into hickies as much as I was. It only seems natural, right? I started meeting guys on Manhunt, unleashing my pearly whites to their throat and wondering why they didn't call me back. Eventually, I figured it out.
Everyone doesn't love having their neck bitten. Some of them may even have boyfriends, wives or husbands to go home to, and a giant bruise on their neck isn't exactly something they can chop up to a "late night at work". If you're into heavy necking, discuss it with your potential partner beforehand or go very light on them until they ask for more. You don't want to lose a good fuck buddy over your desire to become Edward Cullen!
– Dewitt
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Cheaters deserve to get caught, but hickies are pretty trashy. They’re obnoxious and seem like something only a high school kid would want to show everyone they’re getting laid.
I think archangel is only jealous that he isnt getting any to show off to the world 😛 only 1 hickky a year hun? I LOVE THEM
LOVE BITING!!! Nothing is hotter!
I love biting. And 2 things to the partners. 1)Stop fucking around like a horny mutt. 2) like archangel said, cheaters deserve to be caught.
My bf is embarrassed of hickey’s, as am I, since, as archangel, again, said, they are pretty trashy looking when you aren’t in high school. So our rule is, no heavy biting above the shirt line. But other than that biting and being bitten is hot. XD I drive my bf mad when I bite his ear. It’s so fuckin hot.
See, my problem is biting is a natural impulse for me when a guy’s really driving me wild. I accidentally gave a married guy a hickey once (he had to cover it up and blame it on the dog when his wife noticed, lol). I learned to switch to earlobes, ankles, and other places so it doesn’t leave an obvious mark. I still have to watch myself, though. Last week I gave a huge hickey to a guy without even realizing it. Not that he had a boyfriend or anything, but like the guys above said, it’s kind of embarrassing when you’re in your thirties.
Oh, and this scene looks fucking hot. The off-the-bed piledriver is one position I’ve never done before. Might need to try it.
My neck is one of my “G-spots”, so it drives me wild when a guy nibbles there…however, as a teacher, it does look bad coming into class with a neck full of hickies…back when I was much younger and at my first teaching job after college, I had met a man during our Christmas school break…he loved to nibble on my neck (and I loved having it done)…however, on the weekend before heading back to school, he gave me a HUGE hickie that was almost impossible to hide…I wore tutlenecks for a couple of weeks, hoping at least my students didn’t notice (the office staff sure did!)…so, while I agree that those cheating bastards deserve to be caught (better catching a hickie than a disease to spread to a “loved” one), after a certain age, all permanent marks should be made where they cannot be seen at work!
I love biting, why does noone go for the muscle on the coller bone? Would be easy to hide hickies there. Does it hurt to much?
i love biting and there are sooo many other places u can bit and leave marks…i have a habit on biting stomachs while working my way down…but i do like biting necks too, but yo dont have to leave a mark…
Barkerman, you beat me to the punch. Collar bone bites are hot. Did it last night and he was moaning for his life. (But just like the advice dispensed in this entry, I asked ahead of time.)
When I start getting really turned on, I start growling and biting, and usually go for the neck, ears, jawline, and shoulders. Hickies usually require sucking, so if you stick to actual biting, small nibbles in quick succession, and scraping your teeth along the skin, it usually won’t produce a hickie. I’ve only ever accidentally produced a hickie once.
I made the mistake of telling my roommate/teammate that my boyfriend gets an instant boner when someone bites his neck. She told the rest of the girls team and now they’re all over him b/c they think it’s funny slash want to steal him from me. Thanks girls hahah
I’ve always been a neck biter, there are two places on the neck (one on each side, different from the other) that I love pulling on with my lips, squeezing with my lips, licking with my tongue and every so often biting just a bit. It really gets me going and my guy will usually let me do it. Sometimes I just hold it in my lips until I fall asleep. Well all that stopped this winter, after a night of heavy drinking. He woke up to 4 hickeys on him and I couldn’t remember doing it to him. He was so upset that he didn’t let me near his neck for a month and now he will only let me kiss it and I must move on. But he is a heavy sleeper, so there are nights when I just stare at him then have my way. I don’t leave a mark, but I do get worked up over it and our morning sex is amazing.