It’s no longer cool to “hate” Chris Crocker. This may sound awfully hypocritical coming from someone who once said that everything about him “makes me want to die a little inside”, but I’ve recently seen the light and come to respect that Chris is unabashedly himself. In a sea of insecure homos who have nothing better to do but judge people they hardly know (present company included), this is refreshing and pretty fucking brilliant.
Look, am I saying that Chris and I would instantaneously become best friends if we ever hung out? Probably not! Do I want to hop on his beautiful dick and go for a ride? Not really! It’s quite likely that we have very little in common and neither of us would be sexually attracted to one another. That’s fine. It is what it is.
But answer this question honestly for me. If you claim to “hate” Chris Crocker, WHY? Is it because he’s slightly “feminine” and embraces a side of gay culture that you don’t identify with? Is it because he posts naked pictures of himself on the internet and openly dabbles with the idea of doing porn? Is it because he makes slutty booty dance videos to Nicki Minaj songs, yet he identifies as a top? Is it because you don’t believe a guy with a limp wrist can pin someone down and pound them like a bitch? Is it because he actively seeks fame, attention and adoration? Is it because of some Britney Spears video he made several years ago?
Whatever it is, I’m fairly certain it’s not a good reason. Stop it. You are not superior to him because you are “masculine” and don’t post pictures of your taint on Tumblr. No disrespect or anything! I’m sure you’re a fantastic person deep down inside! But you’d be even more fantastic if you shut up and stopped hating Chris Crocker. Leave him alone, dude. I’m bored with your unnecessary hatred.
– Dewitt
Click through to see more pics of Chris and watch his “Feminine Tops” video:
Believe it or not, I started writing this before I saw this video:
PS: He’s talking about Brandon Wilde. We’re actually on his side here? Maybe.
Sistaaaaaa!
I’m sorry but the reason I dislike Mr.Crocker is not for any of the reasons you mentioned above. I have a dislike, not a hate or anything else, for him because he constantly makes a big deal out of things that honestly I doubt most people care about. AKA his being an effeminate top, or the fact he has intentions to do porn or that he posts pictures and people yell at him for it. Effectively, I dislike the fact that he is in the spotlight mostly for being controversial to people. He has a past just like everyone else and he has a future doing whatever he wants to do. At this point I would rather just see him fade out into “normalcy” and let the community just move on. I don’t speak for everyone or even pretend to. These are just my views on where the “hate” for him comes from.
So you dislike him because he seeks attention and fame, basically…
I do not hate him. That is a strong word. However I do have a strong dislike of him and most other fem gay men. I do not like being around them, I do not associate myself with any extremely feminine gay guys. This is because I am attracted to men, not women and attraction is much more than physical. So, no I do not hate this guy. Actually physically he is quite attractive. Attractive that is until he opens his mouth.
As a gay community we owe a debt of gratitude to the extremely feminine gay guys who were the movers and shakers of the early gay movement and the Stonewall riots. They are the stalwart men who stood up for themselves and refused to back down when society belittled and beat them. Be grateful for the fem guys who take the physical beatings, verbal taunts and get killed for living their lives so you don’t have to.
Chris is a good looking man and I’d take him home with me and let him work me over.
i…wait. what? that’s…what? how…
Honestly, I don’t even know who the hell he is. Could care less to be honest. I think Dewitt’s comments just go to show exactly how shallow we as a community are. So what he’s fem, big freaking deal. A fame seeker, well good for him for having the balls half of the tops I know don’t have. When can we as a community get past our own insecurities and stop being asshats to each other over looks? Sure, we all want that porn star hung bf, or that gq model boytoy..but how many of them really do exist in this world to begin with? In short, who cares about Crocker when there are so many other things wrong in this world?
I don’t “hate” someone I have never met. I think he’s a funny guy but I couldn’t really hang out with an overly effeminate male.
To be fair, it wasn’t only effeminate gay men who were involved in the Stonewall riots. At that time, gay men were just happy to have support from each other, period. Guys in NYC wore whistles when they were out in public – they’d blow them to alert other gay guys that they were being bashed and needed help. It was more of a real “community” then. It’s good that we’re so much more accepted now that we can splinter into “sub groups” but it’s unfortunate that we have to discriminate against each other based on those groups. No one asks to be effeminate. You have to go with what you’ve got. I’d rather hang out with a really fun, outgoing effeminate guy than a “butch” bear who thinks being boring is “manly”.
i agree with chris crocker gay and bi men are the worst to judge people what he said is true if you dont him dont judge him he is being honest and himself i prefer meeting people like chris stead of fake people chris if you read this and i hope you do keep being your self man it your right to
Is that really such a bad reason to dislike someone?
Being attention seeking is highly annoying.
All of the other reasons are rather dumb, but that one is rather legitimate.
The video is actually rather good.
Although some things he says are stupid/wrong. e.g.
Why bring up trannies and pool them into ‘being gross’? Isn’t that just as wrong as mentioning feminine tops?
Also, people don’t have the right to comment or say stuff on your publicly stated opinions? When you put it in the public’s eye your pretty much asking them too. Just because they disagree doesn’t mean they’re excluded from throwing their two cents in, especially when you put it on a platter in front of them.
U GO Giiiiirlllll !
i seem to remember saying some of this stuff (in defense of crocker), myself, D.
of course, chris is not beyond reproach.
all i was saying is, if he is to be reproached, it should be for actual character flaws that actively-adversely impacts others.
that said..
..for all the data that i have on chris, i still haven’t found It within myself to jump on that “band’s wagon” of bashing on the guy, at present time.
and i truly don’t believe that any other commentator on this post here will be able to come up with justifiable reasons why i, or any other person of (relatively) sound mind, should.
So it’s okay to keep ragging on the the people you don’t like and/or agree with? Just want to make sure I’m in line with this new way of thinking.
Wow, Chris Crocker got hot. Didn’t see that coming.
interesting post. brings up many of the things that continually circulate on here. Chris Crocker, that kid from glee, the way people react to the ‘twink tank’ posts. There definitely is something to talk about in all this. Clearly there is a divide, perhaps several of them.
On a basic level it seems that people, especially on a forum connected to a hook-up site, don’t care to engage with people they don’t feel an attraction to. Which there isn’t really anything wrong with. Unfortunately we tend to carry that beyond. Soon, a simple “i’m not into that” becomes more of an irk, or pet peeve and then it seems to get progressively vitriolic.
In a perfect world I think we’d all applaud individual expressionism. Which would probably be good. To a degree, I think anyone is ‘fine’ with gay men that are overtly flamboyant as long as they stay on their side of the fence.
Its a funny community, that has festivals to instill pride, encourages self determination, yet still the highest compliment for most gays is when people have to ask if they are gay. Profiles are plastered with ‘straight acting’ guys looking for other chill masc guys. ‘Dude, bro, and ‘sup’ have become almost as synonymous as ‘fabulous’ for reavealing homosexual inclinations.
Interesting stuff. I wonder where it’ll end up as we all move forward.
which i meanter say, i don’t feel chris is such a controversial figure that he, himself, needs to be singled out.
focusing on some dumb little things that might, every now and then, come from out of crocker’s mouth, certainly shall accomplish nothing substantial, as far as advancing our own struggle against The Real Problems which perpetually face the not-heteronormative/heterosexual peoples.
I don’t hate him. Tops come in all shapes, sizes and models. Good on him for speaking his mind on his blog. The only person he needs to please is himself and he seems to know that so good on him. I’ll admit that looking at his pics makes me want to jump his bones but while I agree with his sentiments in the video, it was a bit of a boner killer for me honestly. That is of course MY issue however and nothing to do with him. I own that.
I like Chris, always have since the britney thing. He was a gutsy kid when he made those videos from small-town-wherever. And, today, a man who looks like that is more than welcome to post pics of himself naked. Everyone here does it – seems odd to judge him for that. Let’s lay off all the judging anyway.
I don’t hate him. I really don’t care about him. He does appear to be incredibly trashy, petty and foolish though.
Yeah, I’ve never understood how people believe that once they state an opinion, you can’t have a response to it. It’s my understanding that statement, response, statement, response is the basic pattern of human communication.
from what i’ve read, listened & watched of this person – I have put him in the same category as “HE WHO SHALL NOT BE NAMED” (on this blog anyway).
He’s blossomed along with the Kardashians and every other “reality fame whore” of late … so I really have no opinion … I tell you though – as much as it feels natural to call this fuckers out, it’s just as routine to watch their car crash at the same time (they must be doing something right)
yeah i must agree…..alot of gay people like to judge others in our own community if they are not good looking or whatever and it is sad……i can be friends with anyone well as long as they are not psycho or anything like that lol
until seeing this post I wasn’t aware this guy was in any way still relevent.
Pretty close to accurate. Except I don’t dislike him because he seeks it, I dislike him for the way he seeks it. The internet is going to be the internet and people are going to be people. Combine the two and you get the types of things I dislike. As I mentioned, just one mans opinion and it sure as heck does not represent everyone.
news flash: he isn’t.
Its no wonder we cant get anyone in the straight world to support us, we are the first in our community to tear each other down…Why cant we all just get along… We always say we love diversity, but are the first claw each others eyes out…Wow, what a concept, We need to learn to love one another…..Just saying….
I’m kinda effeminate and kinda boring. So there.
actually, he’s a pretty hot guy…but “slightly” fem???? he goes WAY beyond SLIGHTLY fem lol. he’s the grand canyon of fem, literally
I’d rather be an Attention Whore than an Attention Virgin.
You’re not mad because I seek attention.
You’re mad because I get it and you think people
will think all gays are like me.
So you only associate with people you want to fuck?
You can’t just be around feminine people?
Dude…Look up internalized homophobia. We tend to dislike what we fear within ourselves. Since you have a “strong” dislike of guys who are fem I would suggest taking a look at why they elicit a strong reaction in you. Over-compensate much?
Well said!
I think too many people throw the word hate way too easily…
I’m of the opinion that as long as whatever your up to doesn’t negatively affect my life…then GO FOR IT!
Welcome to Manhuntdaily! The blog where, just because we feel someone is “hot,” you aren’t allowed to have opinions of them!
Someone please explain to me why ANYONE would want to gush like an over the top old time movie star, in real life. NO woman EVER speaks like an effeminate queen. It is an affectation and therefore unnatural and unnecessary!
Feminine and masculine are subjective… They are NOT real. The (global) public’s perceptions of masculine and feminine have changed sooooo much throughout the course of history -and will continue to change- that it’s really surprising that people are still desperately clinging to the idea that being a man/woman is defined solely by our mannerisms. When I see people like you, whose masculine identity lies within their actions, I cringe. I could not imagine living my life based on an illusion that you have been conditioned to believe (the fact that enough people buy into it is why it still exists). Yes, as a feminine guy, I am slightly insulted, but the disservice that you, and other men like you, do to yourselves is much worse. This is just proof that as a community and as people, we still have a lot of growing to do. Im only 18, so I have hope that I will see the day when sexist people Change.
You’re fucking nobody to deem anything as unnatural or unnecessary. For years, certain gay men have been feminine. Nature my ass.
I said this many times to my close friend, who has an aversion to feminine guys, just like many others that, in my experience, feminine tops are fucking good in bed. They are the best. If you haven’t done it, you’re missing out.
Using “Your” and “you’re” incorrectly negatively affects my life. Please stop.
Isn’t it funny how it is NOT criticised when a BOTTOM is big, burly and butch, but it IS when a TOP is effeminate. And here we are trying to raise a ruckus about how we’re men/people too (lesbians don’t count, of course) with the words DOUBLE STANDARDS never far from our lips. I think we’re BEYOND Double standards at this point… we’re into triple and quadruple standards now. Jeezus somebody needs to write these rules down, I’ll never remember them all! It could actually make a pretty neat looking flow-chart…
What bothers me is that anybody would limit themselves to one sexual role.
Chris, you can fuck me any time you want… and I don’t care how masculine or feminine you are… just that you’re hot 🙂
it’s sad to know that even in this community, i’m being discriminated.
I’d hop on his big cock in a heartbeat.
I don’t dislike Chris. I just see all those new, good looking photos of him, and then the “Leave Britney Alone” video starts playing in my head. : It’s disturbing, so I avoid following him.
Good luck finding yourself, Chris. It’s a tough journey.
no mate your limp…. never heard so much shit… YOU gie people like me a bad name…. no one cares what u say or what you want to do ,,,, i had to stop the video so bad , u are a bottom such a bottom whore.. why lie…. you loe cock up your ass,, i hear u shouting NEXT
for someone reason that I can’t explain, I took the WASTED time to read all of these comments – good, bad, and just plain waste of times. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH US!!! I happen to be straight acting (was married for 30 years) but I have friends (real friends) who are all different. Many are married and straight, some are married and also enjoy men), some are athletes, some are scholars, some are cross dressers, and on and on. I don’t need to have sex with all of them. We are FRIENDS and we enjoy socializing, talking to each other, going to dinner or lunch, or just going for a walk or sitting and chatting. I love and respect all of these people. We don’t ask questions about our sexuality. We talk about what is important in the world or in our corner of the world. We don’t give a damn if a person has a lisp, uses his hands when he talks, or any traits that some of you for some reason find offensive. Wish I had a dime for everytime I have read on here ” and then he opened his mouth!!” We as a people need to learn to accept others personal habits and stop trying to categorize every damned one of us. For God’s sake people, suck it up, and learn to love people for who they arre. They don’t NEED to be clones of you!!! Sorry I feel better now. Ron
Indent party wooooo
…Are you serious? ”
I have a dislike, not a hate or anything else, for him because he constantly makes a big deal out of things that honestly I doubt most people care about. AKA his being an effeminate top,” that right there is fucking bigotry, minorities get shit about things like that ALL THE TIME it isn’t “some minor issue people don’t care about” it is getting upset over the bias and dickery people give to minorities simply because they aren’t the same. It’s upsetting to more people than you realise.
i’m sorry i know of plenty of people who act femme because they like the attention it brings……saying you can’t choose to be femme is just plain wrong.
Of course he’s a top. With a cock that big, I would expect nothing less. A huge dong on a bottom is a bit of a waste anyway. If you have a big fat cock, you should use it the way god intended it–to fuck some hot boy ass!
In other words, you think he’s just a big faggy, shallow attention whore who will never make it in life on anything other than acting as such, because he’s too stupid to do anything else. And ya know what? I TOTALLY AGREE! He’s just a big fag who when his youth has left him will be a bitter old washed up has been queen. So sad. NOT! LOL
LMAO – He can show off that little button penis of his (and he has balls too, who knew?) all he wants, but it will never change the fact that he’s just a big sissy girl who likes to wear makeup and defend talentless white trash pop singers…….
Maybe if people didn’t shove their “fake” faggyness on others, then maybe others WOULD be accepting of them. I have very effeminate gay friends and they can act just like everybody else or they can turn on their faggyness and we’re the first ones to tell them to knock it the fuck off because nobody wants to see it or hear it. If you’re on a stage doing drag, fine – otherwise, knock it the fuck off. Plain and simple. They do it (he does it) for attention and nothing more.
“…a cock that big…….” LAFFIN MY FUCKIN ASS OFF! That cock is FAR from big baby, that’s called a close up shot. He’s average at best. Or she is. Or whatever the fuck it is. I’m surprised there’s a cock and balls down there to begin with! LOL
I actually agree with Chris.
Although I absolutely champion Mr. Crocker’s right to unabashedly be himself, I think most people are missing the point when they accuse his detractors of ‘hating’ him because of his in-your-face effeminence…As someone who has watched this entertaining l’il trainwreck/gender-rebel/street-philosopher from the ‘leave Britney alone’ days til present, the only reason that I and many of his critics would find fault with him is not the WAY he is saying things but the questionable content of WHAT he is saying…To be blunt, many of his early Youtube rantings were disturbingly incoherent and aggressively heterophobic…As someone who was positioning himself as a young, fresh voice of gay consciousness, social tolerance & activism, his first video-blogs were an embarrassing blend of self-important grandstanding and half-baked, downright vulgar editorializing about the gay vs. straight schisms in our society….I would not want ANYONE to think that the incarnation of Chris Crocker during THAT period of his personal evolution was a coherent spokesperson for gay rights and gay sensibilities as a whole….Even though he IS maturing and is an evolving personality worthy of public redemption, these shameful early rants are the TRUE source of much of the dismissal & distrust that continues to haunt Mr. Crocker in both the gay AND straight communities…I just wish him luck & enlightenment in his continuing social & intellectual journeys….
Although I absolutely champion Mr. Crocker’s right to unabashedly be himself, I think most people are missing the point when they accuse his detractors of ‘hating’ him because of his in-your-face effeminence…As someone who has watched this entertaining l’il trainwreck/gender-rebel/street-philosopher from the ‘leave Britney alone’ days til present, the only reason that I and many of his critics would find fault with him is not the WAY he is saying things but the questionable content of WHAT he is saying…To be blunt, many of his early Youtube rantings were disturbingly incoherent and aggressively heterophobic…As someone who was positioning himself as a young, fresh voice of gay consciousness, social tolerance & activism, his first video-blogs were an embarrassing blend of self-important grandstanding and half-baked, downright vulgar editorializing about the gay vs. straight schisms in our society….I would not want ANYONE to think that the incarnation of Chris Crocker during THAT period of his personal evolution was a coherent spokesperson for gay rights and gay sensibilities as a whole….Even though he IS maturing and is an evolving personality worthy of public redemption, these shameful early rants are the TRUE source of much of the dismissal & distrust that continues to haunt Mr. Crocker in both the gay AND straight communities…I just wish him luck & enlightenment in his continuing social & intellectual journeys….
I don’t associate myself with fucking femephobic cunts like you! You say you are attracted to men, last time I checked feminine men ARE men. Femininity does not= Female and Masculinity does not =Male. STFU and take your socialized boxed view of thinking elsewhere you a-hole