Nearly every time I’ve ever slept with an older guy, he’s acted like I’m doing him a huge favor. “I can’t believe I’m in bed with you.” Someone actually said that to me recently! I had to pin his wrists over his head, look him in the eyes and say something like, “Are you fucking kidding me? You’re hot.” As he was trying to say something back, I shifted his ankles onto my shoulders and shoved my tongue down his throat.
(I’m very eloquent and romantic in the bedroom, as you can tell.)
The reason I’m bringing this up? To make a point! A lot of younger guys actively crave older men, and it’s not some creepy “my father didn’t love me enough” sort of thing. It’s appealing to be with someone who has experience and knows what he’s doing in bed. Not to mention, physical attraction…
With each year that passes, I’m starting to move into a phase of my life called, “I’m Not A Boy, Not Yet A Daddy”. It’s beginning to become clear why some people feel anxious about gaps in age. You can easily justify being pursued by an older man with the thought “Oh, he thinks it’s hot that I’m younger”. Sadly, it’s harder to admit to yourself “Oh, he think it’s hot that I’m older”. Growing up and becoming a for-real adult is weird.
::sigh::
Well, there I go again, turning a simple post into something it didn’t need to be. The real reason I’m bringing this up? I just finished watching this clip of Dustin Fitch and Brad Kalvo, and the dynamic appears to be reversed. Twinky boy Dustin is so excited to worship this muscular, hairy daddy that you can almost hear him saying “I can’t believe I’m in bed with you” inside of his own head. It’s nice to see that in gay porn.
– Dewitt
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SO fucking hot! Love inter-generational porn!
And these guys really seemed to enjoy it too.
Dewitt, I appreciate EVERYTHING that you wrote~!
An older Daddy here…
I am an older man that loves younger guys, great scene
Fucken hot!
Why is the older guy always the top in porn?
I love topping older men.
Well, hello!  Tell me a little about yourself.  😉
21 here, I really only like to bottom for older guys
23 and really enjoy making an older man bite the pillow 😉
Where do you live? lol
I am 44, and a couple of years ago, I got thoroughly fucked by this 19 year old. I could not believe how well he knew how to use that cock!
When I was younger, I preferred guys five to ten years older than me. But as I’ve gotten older, the age difference (in either direction) matters less and less.
No, Sir!!! Â Me first. Â So Alex, I am exactly double your age. Â Is that a problem? Â How do you feel about Southern men? Â
Love this scene! Older daddy (54) here and love guys in their 20s and 30s. I don’t tend to message young guys first, but I’m always very careful when I get messaged by a young guy. A little concerned that a young guy wants a $ugar daddy … or isn’t mature enough to understand being discreet … so I’m curious what other guys (older and younger) do to establish trust before meeting.
I agree its hot but i do think there is some daddy issues behind it thou creepy or not lol
Ok, so straight guy movie stars can fuck waaaaay younger but we can’t?  lol  By the way, text abbreviations are so done.  I have decreed it, as has everyone with half a brain.  Now that you’ve got the memo, embrace it. Â
Oh, yeah. Â I also judge you by your poor grammar. Â Those “pesky” other keys on your keyboard actually mean something. Â
Haha chicago
Southern men are hot btw
The plane ticket is in the mail!!! Â First class. Â No coach for my babe! Â
Not quite “dads,” but I’m 22 and tend to be mostly attracted to/ attractive to men in their 30s.
I’d be into more older men if they looked like Brad Kalvo.
If there as so many younger guys who want an older man, why can’t I find one for myself??? Older men have the experience to satisfy a younger guy. Many of them don’t know what they’re missing!
I agree to a certain extent, while I am very attracted to “fit” older men I am new to opening myself up and feel more comfortable with someone closer to my age. 19 UT
When I was young, I always preferred mature men and got turned on by them. Mature men exuded complete masculinity to me: beefier; hairier; more dominant. Unfortunately, back then (the seventies), being gay was kept uber-secret, and if there were any mature men around me who wanted to the nasty, there was no way to connect. So I “settled” with friends and guys my own age. Today, with the more openess and cyber availability, I still find mature men more attractive (but I’ve never restricted myself to them – it isn’t age that matters, it’s ability). The ironic things, from my own experiences in trying to hook up with mature men (either around my age or older), virtually all of them only want the 20-somethings. If I got a dime for every profile I’ve read from guys in their fifties, sixties and even seventies (whether on manhunt or other sites, such as silverdaddies, etc.) that insist they only want guys “under 45 (or 35, 30 or even 25)” I’d be able to pay for free memberships on all those sites. It’s incredible how many of those “late bloomers” are also married. Of course, they were always gay, but back then they squelched their orientation and identity to avoid social ostracization by faking it, getting married, having kids and a mortgaged house. With the more openess (even if they “need” to remain “discreet”), they are now trying to catch up with what they’ve missed for decades and want to try and relive a life they never had.
i love when brad kalvo smiles when he’s fucking that fitch guy. total confidence – he really knows how to top.