And we ain’t talkin’ bout that treatment you get at a spa. Unless it’s one of THOSE “spas.” True story. I was with this dude once, and we had been messing around and (for the first time) we had the following exchange:
Dude: I’m close.
Me: Nice. *goes to finish sucking him off*
Dude: No, no. I want to shoot on your face.
Me: Err…
Dude: What?
Me: I, uh, usually just…ya know…swallow it.
Dude: Well, this will be something new for you, fucker.
Me: (yes, he called me “fucker”) Um, ok.
So he stroked himself off and shot it right on my mug. SPLORCH. It was…interesting. It would have been a lot less messier if I had eaten it. And the warmth kinda skeeved me out. Interesting turned to…feeling “eh” about it.
My reaction must have been obvious because he began laughing. And yeah, I felt kinda…used? Would it have been much different if I had swallowed it? Yeah. It was kinda like a sexual pie in the face for me. I felt kinda…slutty. And like he had lorded it over me. It was totally consensual, I just don’t think I liked it. Our balance of power had shifted after the act, and we only hooked up one more time after that. And it was cuz’ the incident irritated me. Was my reaction extreme? Was it wrapped up in my self-esteem somehow? I never figured it out. But I know now that I don’t like a dude shooting on my face.
Whether taking a load like that is a degrading act is really in the eye of the receiver. Some guys LIVE for it, whether it’s a power exchange-type thing or they just like a hotshot on their forehead. It all depends on the situation and intent. Do you find facials demeaning? And if so, why? Have you ever taken one and regretted it later?
Photo credit: Czech Hunter
facials are hot. With a boyfriend they are sexy and intimate…on the receiving end of an enthusiastic group, they are raunchy and hot.
Total waste of protein, but eh, feel neither one way or other about it.
If I were in your particular situation, the facial itself wouldn’t have bothered me as much as the demeanor of the other guy, especially if you hadn’t had that type of “relationship” in the past. This scenario could have been hot if you had established beforehand that this power play would have occurred.
they r HOT
Personally, I like facials. However, when I think about it… they kind of are demeaning.
DEMEANING??
how bout DELIGHTFUL???
hell no facials are hot. Even if you can contorte your body to give one to yourself.
As a top, I would have asked you first where you want my load. If I really wanted to shoot it on your face, I’d say so but not the way your top did unless you had already established his dominance.
As for getting it shot on MY face (assuming I was sucking the guy of course), I’d probably be fine with it if he’s really hot 🙂 I’d just go with it and take it as a compliment that my oral skills and/or face were sexy enough to make him cum. If he needs that final push to get him over the hump, then I’ll all for it.
HELL no! – I love to get a nice hot facial anytime – I prefer to swallow, but if a guy wants to dump it all over my face, he’s welcome to it – he’ll usually rub his cock in it and feed it to me anyway, so we both get what we want – I’ve been on the receiving end in a few bukakki situations and it was hot as hell to feel all that sweet stuff on my face and in my mouth.
I agree with Tom in STL! The act itself is not demeaning, it’s the attitude of the partner. I love getting facials, but if the guy is using it only as a power trip, then it is a turn-off.
I think I would ravage this cutie until he was screaming for more. He is absolutely adorable. I can just imagine spooning with him all night long.
I understand why some people do find it demeaning… just as I understand why many women find blow jobs demeaning. Yet I don’t think there’s anything innately demeaning about a facial. As you described the situation you were in, I’d say that how your partner went about it was demeaning not the act itself. Hell, if you think about it swallowing a guy’s load is even more demeaning than having him shoot all over your face (although it is such easier clean-up).
This is how I see it. If you don’t want it & the guy insist on it or gets pissed if you won’t so you do it to shut him up, it’s demeaning. If you enjoy it, hey, more power to ya. There are some men who won’t do it unless you let them do it on your face.
me personally i find them demeaning…. like a cheap whore…. prefer to swallow or blow it on my chest or cock…
Skeeved!
I don’t necessarily think it’s demeaning; but it definitely is a waste of good jizz. I always swallow it.
I’d do him for free.
Eww no I don’t like other peoples cum on me. It is hot to see a cum shot but it’s kinda gross to get bit on my skin especially near my face
yes they are which is why assumed most guys like them?
also, the czech hunter guy always has the same mysterious sexiness as tony from dirty tony does.
Huge dick. Don’t know his face. A liiiitle dominating. And well, dirty.
I’m with you on that. It’s weird that he’s always whipping out money to molest these boys, when you think there’d be a line out his front door to suck that beautiful cock.
I’m assuming he does it because he enjoys the bribing more than the sex? Maybe. Or the fact that someone is being kiiiind of forced in some way to have sex with him.
I’d hit it.
Hard. And for free.
i wish to differentiate between “demeaning” (which, i feel, does bear some elements of non-consensuality) and “show of `dominance´” (which can be consensual)
anyway, it’s not entirely up to the shooter to determine how the facial is to be interpreted; the shot does have some say, as well
it boils down to this: “do i crave having hot loads blown on my face?” or “will i be immediately inclined to snatch the nuts off the next chap who attempts turning my mug into his kleenex?”
speaking for myself…i don’t think i have an innate problem with getting a facial, except for the cleaning-up part…..
…..but, to be honest, i don’t have a yearning for being in contact with anyone’s spooge (including my own), in general.
(if i’m really in the mood, i think i’ll try to make it clear to my partner what i seek.)
so, yeah: i guess if my partner isn’t careful, he might prematurely-reduce the number of future encounters he enjoys with me.
as a top, i don’t think really inclined towards being subjugated anyway; that is something which is to be kept in mind
facials are great as long as mutually agreed upon. After a guy fucks you to pull out and condum off and shoot all over your face, then clean is cock in your mouth the have your partner kiss and lick your face is hot very very hot
This guy is a bad actor, but has a very Hot Body….and a big cock