Recently, a friend of mine was asked by his therapist to complete a sexual inventory, detailing all of his previous partners and exactly what he did with them. I felt extremely thankful that I've never been asked to compile such a list, as the mere thought of it makes me feel incredibly anxious. I'm perfectly okay with the knowledge that I'm kind of slutty, but I wouldn't want to see tactile documentation indicating exactly how slutty I've been!
If you're willing to share within the anonymity of the internet, let us know your sexual inventory numbers! In other words, how many people have you slept with? Is the number in double digits? Triple digits? I don't even want to know if you've hit quadruple…
– Dewitt
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I’m into the 30’s maybe 40’s. Which in Maine is actually saying a lot, basically half the gay pop up here.
Kind of dainty aren’t we? Do you mean sleep or have sex?
Sex? Probably many hundreds. Possibly over 1,000. But this does not always include orgasim. I am blessed with a sizable dick that gets more attention that it deserves. I wonder what that number would have been if I had not had a 13 year monogamous relationship? LOL
ouch. dewitt, u expect ppl to be honest with this?
though i’m not really surprised by the ‘over 1000’ comment above me, cos it’s easily doable if u r not in a relationship.
the number for me is around 50.
i’m 21. started at about 18.
well i have been having sex since i turned 17 am now gonna be 23 and i’m up to 157… thats not high right? LOL
oh and just to add to my previous one… no std yet LOL
I stopped counting in my 20’s and I’m 40 now and happily partnered.
I’m in several hundreds and am in my early 30’s. I’m a firm believer in trying it on before you buy.
Jesus Christ… where do you people even find time for all of that? Lol. I am 25 (active since 18), and I have only had sex with 4 people, and messed around with (this includes anything between fondling and oral) about 16 or 18 people. Though, to my own credit/fault/whatever, it is by choice. I just can’t get into the hook-up scene.
yeah can we get some distinction? My “hook-up” list is considerable. Sex list is considerably shorter. (one hand)
My number is 15, and been doing it since i was 18 and now Im 26. Now the amount of oral ive performed is much more than the sex number. i don’t even think i can count(or remember) the people ive sucked off.
Sex, I’d probably say around 10-15, with around 20-25 as the total for all sexual activity. I should probably write them down if I want to keep track, cause I’m just guessing at numbers.
I lost count at 80 and that was about 5 years ago. So I’d probably say I’m solidly in the triple digits now.
What’s funny is when I talk about this topic with my straight friends, and they all just look at me like I’m lying. They don’t realize that the GaySexin happens all the time.
I’m 21 and my first time was when I was around 19. I’ve fooled around with 82 guys (I keep track) and had sex with about 3/4 of them. Most were fun. Some were strange as hell but I got a couple of stories slash learning experiences out of them.
I’ve only had meaningful sex a handful of times though :/
ive had sex with 10 guys. im 18 and have been active for just over a year.
Hookups, over 80. Sexz, less than 10.
hmm… lets check… i’m 24, active since 14 *-) lol yay for random posts… lol
And i’m well beyond 100. lol I’ve changed that number 4 times. first 50, 75, 90, it keeps growing. haha
How fair is it that were posting our sexual count on here, & dewitts just sitting back enjoying our Outgoing’ness. i for one want to know how many people he’s hooked up with 😛 whats his magic number *-)
20 years old, still a virgin. In fact only have given/gotten hand jobs before, and only a few of those… guess I’m a little unexperienced…
i dunno, 75-125 ish?
(2 years experience, gogo! … >.> )
im turning 21 on the 24th, but since my senior year when i was 17..my number went from 1 to 40 in about 3 years
Gross.
My number is 11, but if I counted sex like most people do, then my number would be alot lower….
however, in a seperate list that has more to do with my sex addiction I have no idea how high that number is, probably into the hundreds by now.
Actual sex twice.
Just blowjobs once.
Mutual masturbation twice.
21 and active since I was 18, and yep, I’m pretty much a prude… except when making out… I love making out, that number is surprisingly high compared to the rest.
Somewhere between 50 and 60 and that is over 16 years.
I’m 21 Started having sex when I was 18 so let’s see, add the 5, carry the 2,…that makes ONE person for three years and I am perfectly fine with that, we broke up a little while ago but I know I’m not going to have sex outside of a relationship because I am a classier lady than that.
hahahaha… 21 now, been active since I was 17… Anal with 3 people, and messed around with (anything else) with 9… I am niether proud nor embarrassed about the number… it is what it is, Im young, tall dark and handsome, but almost never feel the need for sex “right now”… guess we are all different… meh…
I had sex with 6 guys yesterday. Yes, yesterday. I’m 48, and being playing with men since I was 10. Does that affect my ability to count?
Triple digits here.
20 years old, have had sex with 1 person
That was 3 years ago…
I’m not huge into the hook-up scene nor do I like randomly fooling around with people.
If somethin happens it happens but I never force it…
dewitt needs to define what “sex” is, i see.
because, it seems some of us are taking up a `bill clinton´ kind of interpretation with that word.
for, i figured any Genital/Orificial contact constituted Sex.
Period.
No Need To Distinguish, if not specifically sought.
(because, basically, if you can get a sexually transmittable infection from The Act. . .)
mutual masturbation? maybe one can include that in the category, although it’s pretty minor league stuff, by itself.
BD/SM? ´just another form of foreplay, for the most part.
dewitt should also ask, “how many of these partners would you have sex with, again?”
“how choosy are you?”
“what are your standards, if any?”
i wouldn’t necessarily be impressed by the “triple digits,” and the like..
..also, dewitt should ask “where have all of these encounters taken place?”
because, as far as i can tell, some areas are easier for one to get laid in, than in others.
It’s too vague of a question… and I wouldn’t have a count
Okay, I’ll be the whore who admits to it… this is a guestimate, but if we say an average of 2 guys per week (sometimes less, sometimes more, never had a relationship, rarely do repeats) and I’m 43 and started having sex when I was 16, then that’s… well, let’s just round it up to 3000 to account for those really wild weekends. Not proud nor ashamed of it – it’s just sex so I don’t put a lot of baggage on it.
BTW, I define “sex” as having an orgasm in the company of another human being, but 99% of the time for me that involves at least oral and usually anal (I’m a total top).
I’m very picky but live in Los Angeles where the pickings are much more abundant, so yes geography makes a big difference.
i like HRT in LA’s answer.
i will say about 15 for anal sex… but its a a bigger nuember if we count just oral or just J/O…. i will say around 50….. and im 25 but im from latin america so its a much smaller population bases….
But if i recalculate ive start having sex whit men at 12 so im a promiscuous men acordding to the WHO definition (more then 2 sexual partners in a period of a year…. hahaha can u belive it)
for christ’s sake, I felt like a slut until I read some of your guys’ responses.
Active since 18. Now 24. Probably between 15-20. I’m sure I’ve had sex a number of times when I’ve been too drunk to remember anything, so that’s a pretty rough number. Still not as big a slut as most of you guys, though.
Umm, somewhere between 30 and 60 i know that much!! Last count was 30 something for actual sex, 40 something for sex and oral/J.O but that was over a year and a half ago.
I’m only 20, so yeah, i get around a bit eh?
i have no clue at all on how many people i’ve had sex with. I’d guess around 50 or so
geeze, you guys are sluts!! STD’s anyone?
i’m 38 so i can say less than 100
Wrestleto of the thousand times how many times was it safe sex ?
my number is twenty, including just oral encounters, im 22 started at 18, i worked on a ship, where everyone selpt with everyone, and everyone knew about it, and i grew up pretty sexually conservative so i didnt whore myself out like the other gay men, and im ok with that.
(if it weren’t for other peoples’ STIs, and Mental Disorders, then i believe we’d all be “whores.”)
24 yrs old and 4 plus I wish I could say it was less
I’m almost 21, active since I was 16. Sexual penetration is about 15-25 and flooing around and what not isn’t to much higher around 40-55, including the sex partners. And there would only be about 5 one nighters, in there, so was in either relationship or fuck buddy.
There was a two year period for me that the medication I was on at the time threw my sex drive into overload, so if I didn’t have that point in time I think it would be lower.
Anal: I’m 24 and have bottomed for 14 guys.
Oral: given head to about 60 guys.
You didn’t say anything about math questions on the test!!! LOL
I’m with Hrt in La…
I’m still kinda surprised how young some of these commentors above me are.
As for me. I’m 46. When I was in my twenty’s, I’ve had three different hook-ups a week.
O.K. 3 blowjobs/anals times 52 week a year.
Maybe more on Holidays!
Times that in five years. 780 guys, some are repeat customers. All that before you are thirty years old. I was a slut looking for love in all the wrong guys. But now I don’t do that anymore. Ageism got me.
Sex is for the Young, is my motto now.
well feel like a slut, probably nearly 100, most are just bjs, or handjobs.
Neil I with u and used to hook up quite alot but dont do that anymore and 35