When it comes to sex, do you prefer doing it in the dark? Or would you rather keep the lights on? That’s the Random Question of the day! Based on other people I’ve asked, the answers have been relatively varied, with each individual citing different reasons for their preference.
Personally, I like to keep the lights on! You might know this about me, but I’m kind of an extremely visual person. It gets me off to see every inch of my partner’s body (or partners’ bodies), and I’d rather not rely on night vision goggles to get the job done. That’s just me. Where do you stand?
– Dewitt
I like both. I think it’s sexy to be “taken” in the dark. But I also like to see him. I guess I just like sex. Lol
I think I lean to at least some light in the room. Dim light, candlelight, but not total blackout.
Lights on mostly – or at least some light. I like to see the guy I’m having sex with. Plus, lowers the risk of any possibly awkward accidents.
I like both…while I like to see my partner, one of the most intense sexual experiences I’ve had was where we were both blindfolded…HOT! Like Todd, I like sex 😉
it is the level of intimacy a quick fuck lights off… a quick fuck looking at your partners eyes lights on… a scene of dominance over your partner doesn’t matter…. time with your husband, depends on how horny you both are… maybe lights off till sunlight….
I seem to have morning sex lately – but lights out is very hot – it is all feeling and no visual – so my fantasies go wild while still enjoying the man I love
the only time I like lights off when it involves the underground room at the George’s in Berlin or in the backroom at Rawhides in New Orleans or even in the upstairs of Club Cockring in Amsterdamn.
Otherwise, I preffer the lights on so I can reveal in the perfection that is the Artwork known as the Male Human Form.
LIGHTS ON!!
Otherwise I can never find the hole.
I prefer the lights on. Its somewhat intimate and exciting!
It deppends. It’s hot when you can see your boryfriend’s face and all the action clearly, but it is proved and I can confirm it; that when your vision is not the best, your other senses increase in such big way. The touching, moaning, whispering and the rest of things go to a different level and it can be such a turn-on as well.
Most of my encounters have been dimly lit…but I don’t really have a preference…when I’m horny and the guy is hot it doesn’t matter…let’s do this!!!
like lights on, have mirors around my bed…like to watch that bottom boi cunt from all angles…lites out?…why?…that ugly maybe?
ummmm i love sex during the day so i guess that means lights on?
but if i have to have sex at night…i could careless. lights off means looking with your hands. lights on means looking with your eyes. either way you can’t really go wrong.
the older i get (and I’m getting way older) the less I want the lights on… I’m not as visually impressive anymore, and neither are my partners (thank goodness for beer goggles!) 🙂
Lights on, but would love to try lights off for a change. Like chaz mine’s mostly during the day…
I like out of room light. Doesn’t matter if it’s sunlight through a closed blinds, a light on in another room or light from the tv. I like the “not bright but bright enough to see kind” of light.
Lights ON and Dim Lights. Dont like Lights Off.
Same as @ToddM and many others .. I like both. Seeing the visual cues from your partner is extremely hot but so is feeling the reaction with lights off. Like many others – I simply like sex.
Sex in the dark seems to be more intense, at least to me. Relying totally on the feeling and touch alone, to experience the pleasure is exciting. Hopefully you will already know what you partner looks like so there will be no real need to see him. The intense pleasure of only feeling what is going on only makes the situation better in my personaly opinion. Lights on is fun too though.
Sex is hot whether the lights are on or off. Ive done it more with with light on but it depends on what my partner likes
As long as the sex is good & HARD who cares if the lights R on or off !!
Another one for Todd’s view. I prefer the lights on but will take whatever is available cause, in the end (no pun intended), it’s all about sex!
Dark, enough light (candle works, moonlight better) to see the look on his face when he finishes.
But I’m a bit obsessive about even the slightest flaw. Comes with the compulsive territory. Don’t want/need it.
light off
Lights on. Lights should only be off if you need to fantasize about it being someone else – in which case why aren’t you fucking who you actually want?
low light, indirect light, candles etc. at night…daytime, open the blinds and let the sunlight it, just don’t like the glare of bright lighting…but I wanna see the guy I’m with.
but hey, we all look about 10 years younger by candlelight…sooo..
Lights on. It’s hard to tie a guy up in complete darkness.
I have a dimmer on every light in my home especially the bedroom. Keep the lights on but low so that everyone can see how sexy everyone looks and no one has to lay on their back staring into the light on the ceiling.
@Justin – why aren’t I fucking who I actually want? Is that a serious question? Because James Franco is not available… Like most I prefer dim light for the visual stimulation it provides.