Can you fuck or be fucked by a guy (the difference might be a factor in your answer) and still be considered “straight?” That’s what this “Steamroom Stories” vid puts forth. You might be distracted from answering because of the dude’s nipples on the right. They’re like headlights. You’re going to be like a deer in them. Anyway, in this bit, a dude admits to his friend that he did gay for pay but asserts he’s straight. His friend has doubts. The dude who did a dude argues that if a gay guy has sex with a girl, it doesn’t make him straight. That’s a good point!
We could go around and around on this one for hours. It really matters how you define “gay.” It’s also a matter of friction. And what you’re visualizing. How do you think guys in prison have sex lives? Our finding is “yes, a guy can still have sex with a guy and be straight.” Agree or disagree?
No. You can think about having sex with guys and still be straight, however if you A) do it and B) enjoy it and want to do it again, you are bisexual, not “straight”. Real “straight” guys only have sex with women.
People define themselves. If a man has sex with another guy, but wants to identify as straight, he’s straight.
I agree with the fact that sexual activity is just activity. It does not necessarily make them gay or straight. Sex, is sex
I agree– i’m just old enough to remember the days when Str8 guys would only accept blowjobs or maybe fuck another dude as long as str98porn was playing…. now i have a Str8 bud who enjoys sucking my cock as much as I like his, and it makes sense– he just thinks of it as getting off and doing something his wife can’t– namely, supply a dick for sucking– but there is no emotional attachment at all, when we’re done, he dresses and leaves (smiling) and in a few weeks, I get a text from him =) But no I don’t think he’s “Gay” at all, maybe Str8 with a Twist at most.
Exhibit A: Gay Porn Star Paddy O’Brien. Has a video interview going around (A4A) Try to keep track of how many times he says he’s straight.
Hell my stepfather told me “Guys have need”. So he fucked me and I fucked him. Nothing QUEER like kissing or sucking dick.
woah. was that a good or bad experience for you?
Hated him.
how old were you?
16 through 18 till I joined the Navy. whoa it got worse. Everyone had to put their hands on me. I mean my superiors.
creepy. glad youre through it though
Thanks.
Sexuality is a spectrum, and we can define ourselves wherever we want on it, regardless of what sexual activity we pursue.
Yes, I do love the nipples on the curly haired hottie 🙂
It’s pretty understood that sexuality is a spectrum, correct? I identify as straight – I date women, I can only imagine myself settling down with women. But every now and then, I like playing with a guy. Some guys on this site (and others) accuse me of being in the closet, or not being honest with myself. The thing is, I know myself better than anybody else does. It’s 2013 and sexuality is so nuanced and on a purely physical level, sex is fun. I can acknowledge that a guy’s got a good body or a nice dick, and I might want to have fun with that guy. Will it develop beyond that? Absolutely not. The women I date know that I’m closer to the middle of the spectrum, and they’re okay with that. I wish that most of the guys I played with were okay with that. They seem to go all haywire when it comes up. I’m not lying to myself – we’re all different, and you have to accept that.
…you’re gay.
That’s because you’re gay.
I think one of the main reasons some gay guys always insist that once you have sex with a guy you’re no longer straight is that they get some twisted pleasure from “turning” a straight guy or “convincing” a guy that he isn’t straight.
We all keep saying let us be gay and happy and doing what we do. Why can’t we do the same? It’s been said best already, if he wants to identify as straight, then God forbid that we actually call him straight! When I’m drunk I have been know to have sex with girls. Does that make me straight? Hell no.
Its not the act that defines sexuality, it’s what “turns you on.” Being gay is more than just physical unless you are completely shallow and will do anything with a dick and a pulse. Some people still have problems with bisexuality and consider anyone who even looks at the same sex as gay but unless you are a 6 (like myself) or a 1 on the Kinsey scale you are partially bisexual.
explain for me how does all this work.
(since, obviously, everything i thought i knew was 100% wrong.)
so, i’ve:
• been willingly sucking cock (and licking balls)
• been fucking Man Ass
• been kissing guys
• willfully got my dick sucked by fellas
• cuddled & fondled a decent number of bloakes…
• …and had masturbated (solo), thousands of times (and counting), using sundry erotica that feature (mostly) guys. . . . .
• (and more)
. . . . .but if i want to tell others “man, fuck that: even though i haven’t ever touched a woman’s snatch in my life (and had never really a burning desire to) i am still a Heterosexual, dammit!!” then nothing stops me?
and i am free to suffer no one’s dissent, in spite of what appears to be overwhelming evidence that ostensibly contradicts me, when i stake this peculiar-sounding assertion — yeah?
or should we say “to hell with it” and just have dispense with the labels of “gay,” “bi-sexual,” “straight,” and “queer” altogether?
i’m not understanding what you guy are trying to sell to me.
i don’t understand what i am supposed to do?
@ℜεx Gαηч♏ε∂ε. Well of course you can call yourself heterosexual but i don’t think it means you are. homo and heterosexuality have much more to do with who i want to be intimate (not fuck) with, who i want to love, who i want to share my life. I’ve fucked lots of women and lots of men, but the one’s i love are almost always men.
Hetero means hetero for a reason. Two guys cannot fool around or have sex and still be straight. Maybe if it’s a one and done, then sure. Then you’d just be curious. But once a second time happens, it moves beyond curious and to bisexual. Gay sex is two men. If straight guys could have sex with guys, then there’d be no line in between. Straight men fuck women and gay men fuck dudes. Anyone who thinks otherwise is just too deep in the closet. Look at all these guys on dating and sex sites who classify themselves as straight, but they’re online lots trying to find a dick to suck. You go out and ask anyone and they’ll say the same. Anyone who says different…..you may wanna ask a different question
straight guys are awesome if they play
I have a buddy like that also and love it