Yes, we see the wedding ring! While that isn’t necessarily a clear indication of this military dude’s heterosexuality, it should be noted that today’s Top or Bottom poll is mostly wishful thinking. None of us will ever have the opportunity to sleep with him.
But if we did, do you think he’s prefer getting his handsome face buried into a pillow, or would he be so tired from serving his country that he’d rather kick back and let someone service his dick? Come to think of it, maybe this would have worked better as a What Would You Do post…
– Dewitt
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Ugh. This is tacky as hell.
Once again Dimwit is being a fag.
Sorry the tone of my last post was so cranky. I know you boys work pretty hard to provide content AND deliver it in ways that are fresh and interesting.
I’m embarrassed to be gay and to frequent this site when I see shit like this. Â There is no reason this warrior’s picture should be on a gay hook-up blog posing a question of whether he prefers to fuck or be fucked by men when he clearly enjoys neither. Â It does not “get better” by confirming our straight counterpart’s worst concept of who we are. Â Thanks Dewitt, you’re an ass.
Stupid and tasteless and confirms this person should not be in media.
Gotta join in the chorus of “fuck this, Dewitt.” This ANONYMOUS STRAIGHT MAN does not deserve to be the topic of our sexually explicit and PUBLIC conversation.
What they said.
Shameful; the man is obviously straight and his picture shouldn’t be posted on a gay site.
Gotta concur with the previous posts. This is tasteless and just feeds into the stereotypes we already have to endure. I used to enjoy this blog but it has really gone downhill in the last few months.
Really? Why in the hell would you drag some poor guy you have no information of into this supposed debate/poll? And, if you have to qualify that you can’t verify the answer, why pose the question? Though I find some of your “reporting” interesting, this is a new low, even for for you, Dewitt.
I agree with the previous posts…
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Firstly, being in the army doesn’t automatically make you a warrior or a hero. Secondly, he’s obviously fetishizing this man. Something completely in his right as he’s not harming anyone. Something we’ve all done in our daily lives, whether it be sexually, or in a different manner.
I sure hope you’re not being a hypocrite and voting him as a “total top” or whatever because there’s a fair amount of guys voting on this, clearly indicating a similar perspective on this man: he’s hot.
I don’t know why everyone’s jumping on the troll bandwagon. This is a blog. On a gay hookup site. Stop visiting this page and ruining it for everyone else who can temper their expectations from a site like this.
No Tom, YOU’RE an ass.
poor taste… plain and simple
Hate to break this to you, Dewitt but ALL your Top or Bottom polls are “mostly wishful thinking”.
But, it IS intriguing how rankled the gurls above are compared to, say, when a Hollywood celebrity (eg. Zac Efron, Bradley Cooper, Ryan Gosling, etc…Â ) is the subject of your innane polls. Just sayin’.
I gotta say, I enjoy being the devil’s advocate for the sake of annoyance and to open conversation about topics to broaden the view of the person I’m talking to. Snowball is totally right about this.
Tom- How do we know that man doesn’t enjoy being top or bottom? Because he’s in the army? Because he has a wedding band on? How do you know he’s not married to a man? How do you know he’s not married to a woman and sleeping with men on the side? Is that really out of the realm of possibility?
 Oh Snowball….we don’t need the opinion of some mouth-breathing, basement-dwelling ‘mo who doesn’t have the first clue on what’s considered appropriate behavior (much like Dewitt).
 To be fair, Tom, this person doesn’t clearly enjoy anything aside from his beverage, his fellow trained killers (you say potato), and plain jewelry. I see nothing that indicates that he couldn’t possibly be even a little curious about boys. He’s the subject of a photograph; unless you happen to know him personally (and if you do, then Gosh I’m so sorry), you have no basis for such a blanket statement.
Further, if you’re that easily embarrassed, I think the problem here may have more to do with you than MD. It’s your idea of homosexual culture that is shameful; quite frankly, caring about what the straight community thinks is the single biggest obstacle to developing an acceptable identity of our own. Don’t get me wrong – I believe that the gay community should strive to use our talents to make the world a better, braver place, and perhaps the biggest part of that is getting the message to others that our lifestyle is not something to be shunned. But the reason we struggle, and friend, the reason I disagree with you, is this:
 Until we do and say as we like without censoring ourselves to fit what’s acceptable to a group whose attitudes are only incidentally relevant to our own, then that straight community will embrace a lie on our part. They will accept a misrepresentation of ourselves that is worse than any slur which they could level against us, because it will be rooted in a hate we hold for ourselves. I mean, shit, I’ve come this far as an example of a gay man without fibbing about how I really feel, and you’re going to tell me that I should diminish myself just to make nice? Shame on you.
Is this really any different than straight guys fantasizing about how some attractive servicewoman in a picture likes to fuck? It may not be the portrait of pure class and refinement that it seems you’d like to present to the world, but I don’t think the straight folks are buying that image anyway – it runs against the whole “we’re human too” campaign the media’s currently running. So keep on reaching for that rainbow, and never mind the shit you stand in when you speak.
If all you fags are so concerned with your perception as a homo, then get off a site dedicated to hooking-up and and stop being such whiny cunts. He didn’t post this guys personal information, and for all you know this is a picture for some sort of advertisement. If you don’t like what you see, then stop coming back.
 Well, all celebrities are automatically potentially gay, so it’s okay, right? Right?
While I’m not necessarily saying that I agree this should have been posted, I’ll defend Dewitt’s right to post it. I even defend his right to post what he said about Chris Brown even though I completely disagree. Why? It’s his goddamn blog. He can do what he wants. If you guys were truly that pissed at this then this would be the last time you read this blog, but it won’t be. The minute some hot porn star is on here fucking some other hot porn star you’ll be flocking back. This is a blog for a gay hook up site. No one is coming here to expand their mind. They’re coming to get hard looking at hot men, occasionally listen to decent music, and get hard looking at hot men.
Snowball II,  First of all he is not in the Army, but the Marines and has a combat action ribbon on his chest, which means that he was in combat, if you’re interested, it is the on the top row of ribbins on the left side, it is a very big honor for a Marine to serve in actual combat. I know these things because as a Vietnam combat medic/corpsman I have the same ribbon.
 Oh, and for clarification – 100% Versatile.
 …Yeah, I come for the hot men. But I stay for the stirring social discourse.
What do you mean hot? He isn’t a troll necessarily, but he is a fatty!!! Disgusting.
Lame Post……C’mon MHD.
I guess that dewitt should have the right to post this but I also think that he should have gotten permission from this man to do it.  He may be  gay,  he may be straight, he may be bisexual.  But whatever he is – heaven forbid his wife or children should seee this. And yes I know children should not be on this site but I can guarantee you if they did, it would not be a first. I think De Witt needs to think while he is wet dreaming before he puts it on the internet. Just saying!!
omg he is NOT by any means a fatty. And how do you that under that uniform isn’t a rippling physique. His forearm looks pretty toned. So fucking sick of superficial, judgmental queens throwing their bial around like it means a damned thing.
We want equality? Learn to rid ourselves of our own discriminations and accept people for WHO they are, rather than what they APPEAR to be.
“what we don’t like in others is usually what we don’t like within ourselves”
How do you know he didn’t?
i don’t but as an ex-military person I would feel safe doubting it, especially with de witts track record lately.
so, we should be asking ALL the celebrities’ permission before they are posted on a gay blog too, eh? *insert sarcasm anywhere*
Why do a lot of you assume that any association with homosexuality is a bad thing? Everyone complaining about image and equality have missed the point that you are automatically saying that it is insulting or wrong for a straight guy to be on a gay blog. It implies that “gay” is humiliating or an insult and that is what I find disgusting and insulting. The only thing that should happen if a straight guy finds his picture here is to say that, while he is flattered, he’s not gay and leave it at that. There is nothing wrong with finding a guy attractive and speculating, there is however something wrong with confirming that being thought of as gay is a problem.
Comical really. Ripping apart and judging actors, models, artists, athletes, porn stars, etc… is  perfectly acceptable behavior, but it’s interesting to see what has happened now that an Average Joe is on the chopping block.
Does anyone truly care for this man’s plight, or rather does the notion that anyone can be the subject of scrutiny bring feelings of uneasiness to the people once thought excluded? Dun Dun DUNNNNN!!!!!!
Tapthatguy.com. Users upload photos (some are very slyly taken) of everyday people, and I’m assuming, in most cases, without the subjects permission. Bloggers take said pics and reapply them to their sites for objectification. The site is also perfectly legal. I think it would be “just desserts” for all of you Queens out there to find your pics posted up for tearing down.
Sorry Grendel, I didn’t mean to mouth-breathe all over you. I’ll get out of your cardboard box and let you masturbate to old sears catalogs :^p
Appropriate behavior flew out the window the second you probably posted your stinky star in your profile. No judgments, just those who live in cardboard boxes shouldn’t cast stones…
The only problem that I can see is if this is a copyright picture and is being used without permission.  The picture is apparently taken in public.  Let’s be honest, if you’re in public, someone will see you and have an opinion on you sexually.  I personally find him hot, and obviously some others disagree.  Unless you cover yourself in a burlap sack, this is going to happen.  I hope the gentleman in the picture will regard the fact that some people find him hot as a compliment, regardless of how lurid those thoughts are being expressed. Straight men have been feeding that line to women for ages. 🙂
That’s fair enough. I’m wrong about that aspect but that still doesn’t address the topic at hand-why is this column offensive, especially just because he’s a marine/straight. There’s nothing inherently wrong with a little fantasy. Men in uniform have always been an icon of sexualization, specifically in the gay community.
What bugs me is that people come on here to crap all over this post, knowing this is manhunt. Manhunt! Not the GLAAD awards. He’s an attractive man, we’re gay men with the ability to fantasize.
I appreciate your service and if you looked as good as this man I’m sure my mind would run rampant with questions not entirely too different from this here post. I sure as hell don’t feel ashamed because I’m attracted to him.
I like the fact that we are all the same  –  we all have an opinion and an asshole. Ok so a  lot of you think  my asshole is from head to foot but that is ok  – we all have our opinion.
In an effort to parlay this thread of commentary into something more productive, maybe our willingness to engage each other over certain issues should be the thing we take away from all of this.
How about a new feature with topics to be debated/opined-over in a friendly, civilized way? You could call it Master (de)baters, or something.
well-said, Bryan! But, I must disagree with you on one point: he’s a total bottom! 😉
I’m going to vote tasteless as well. Not surprising this is on here, just disappointing.
this is real sad will let my cosine know he got posted here and he can take it from there for the record im sure his wife will not be thrilled either
wow.
this will probably be one of the “highly commented upon” posts for this week..
..but, perhaps, not quite for the reasons which dewitt was expecting.
and as usual, i get to see input from people whom i’ve never (or only rarely) seen leave Commentary here, before.
(and will likely not see anymore, anyway.
based on the contents of the messages they have for the subject matter.)
which is always amusing, to me.
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I’ll agree with those that believe this post is crossing the line. I’m not really interested in determining where “the line” exactly is. But this guy, regardless of his orientation or job, is not a public figure and to fantasize about him is invading his privacy.
what a bunch of hypocrites!
Hey Dewitt, sadly I have to go with the mood above (even though I have no intention of reading all that). Yes, the guy is kinda sexy but this is rather lame. Maybe this is also the warning light that it’s time to put “Top or Bottom” to bed…alone.
Master Debaters!!! LOVE IT!! Dewitt, can I retroactively vote for that to be the new column?!?! Great idea and FABULOUS title Licorice.
De Witt I would like to add my vote for Master (de)bators as well. It sounds great and LicoriceScourge is right on the money. What a great name! I love sucking on a nice stick of Licorice!!!!
Give me a fucking break. This is a porn blog. im sure that when he posts pics of hot guys fucking who dont think of the children that might potentially be looking at this. Fuck no! Your too busy jerking your dick. This is a porn blog for gay men who like to look at other men. Grow the fuck up.
Oh, he’s 90% top. (Of course, I know this is just fantasy based upon the pick if he is gay.) I had a buddy who looked just like him and we’d get together for some fun stuff. Unfortunately, he moved away because of work. Anyone want to be his replacement? Yeah, I know, just more wishful thinking.Â
who cares! I’ll PASS on him! didn’t even vote because I legit don’t care to know.Â
How do you know he lives in a “carboard box?” You do come over as a “know-it-all.”….So just pull in your Lee Press on Nails and let people post as they feel.
Heres my 2 cents…I find it hilarious that 95% of you assume he is straight just because one of two reasons (or both)…1)he is a Marine, and 2) He is straight.
#1…I know more gay Marines then I do straight Marines…heres a clue…you can’t tell the different without asking…or knowing them personally (at least in my experiences..I also come from a very large military family that has many different cousins in all branches)
#2 My father and grandfather never wore wedding rings…and they were married to their wives since their early 20’s. The gay Marines I know (who are married), except for 1 pair, wear wedding rings.
I’ve got to be honest, but I think Dewitt is doing a good job. Remember, he BEGGED us all to send our own pictures in for this and the well dried up because we stopped. If you want to complain, complain about all the people who want content but wont contribute in any way other than to moan.
Incidentally, no, I have not submitted my pictures. I don’t want anyone losing their last meal by looking at my photos and my ego is far too fragile to cope with the scathing shallow bitchiness so many users of this site exhibit.
All very high & mighty negative comments. Lets not be too serious about this. There are so many more things to get on your soap box that actually matter. Plus it is a manhunt blog. How rightous can you be if you come here looking for a hot guy to ogle. Plus how many wrote a negative coment and thought at the end. Yeah I’d let him fuck me.