When you read some of the nasty comments on this blog, it's easy to feel a little insecure about yourself. If people are calling an extraordinarily sexy guy "obese" or a "butterface", you can't help but wonder what they'd say about you. Not that we're acting all innocent. We've been known to occasionally pick apart other individuals, but we'd just as soon admit how hurtful it'd be to be examined with such scrutiny.
Remember Shawn Hunter? We featured him a while back for our Everything Butt feature, and several commenters complained about a scar on his abdomen and his alleged "chubbiness". Frankly, I was too busy thinking about diving into those round ass cheeks to notice any damn scars.
No one is seen as universally perfect, and everyone has a different idea on the meaning of sexy. Even the most attractive men in the world are subject to such criticism as being "too pretty", "not that impressive" or "butt ass fugly". A larger tummy or stubby dick might make one man nearly vomit, while another man might be sent over the edge by these characteristics.
I guess what I'm trying to say is… you can take flattering representational pictures of yourself, but don't try to hide who you actually are. Your photos should embody a "what you see is what you get" attitude. I mean, would you rather someone to be disappointed by what they see online or disappointed by what they see in person? Personally, I'd prefer sleeping with someone who wants me–so-called flaws and all.
– Dewitt
Hey Dewitt…
Why don’t you make it a new rule…
I someone wants to post a nasty comment about a pic of someone else on here…especially a guy as hot as Shawn Taylor, they should have to post naked pics of themselves with their comments…
Then we can see what they are using as a comparison…and hell we can critique their looks too…LOL!
Now that would be interesting!
Before posting any comments one should always ask of themselves: “Would you say that in person?”
Great idea!
I’d take your comments more seriously if you weren’t so critical of other guys yourself. By saying what you did above, you’re pretty much admitting that you like being “hurtful” to people.
this is so fucking true, there is nothing worse than when u see a picture of someone and then u see them in real life and you are like….wtf ,
To all those overly critical queens: You may be looking for perfection but, is perfection looking for you? Think on that for awhile.
I don’t think anyone is ever happy with the way they look. I work my ass off to have abs, i have no sugar, no white bread, i hit the gym six days a week, and for what, because I hate my nose. I know this, i know that i am trying to over compensate for a flaw. I can’t help it. I belong to a community that is more appreciative of my abs than of my nose… (not that it’s a bad one) but to me IT IS, and so i over compensate for it. It’s all good, i think, someday i’ll be 40, and maybe it won’t matter as much. But i appreciate what this post is saying.
AAA, if you’re referring to my post…you missed the point…
What I was getting at, is do these guys who are “so” critical “think” that “they” are perfection…I’ll bet people could find flaws with their looks…and I have to wonder if they experienced the kind of critism that they dish out…how would they feel…
I’d go crawl under my bed if people talked about me like that…
To eli…dude, I don’t like my nose and I don’t like the bags under my eyes…but people tell me that I’m attractive all the time…there are some men out there who not only appreciate your nose, but also appreicate who you are!!!
or he could be responding to the blog, gary.
This is going to still happen. The gay community to very critical and its youth obsessed. Good luck on it changing! I feel fat and old looking at this blog everyday. And I’m 32..its all very rediculous!
I love a guy with a big nose – it fucking turns me on.
I went to a club a few weeks ago and some guy criticized me because he said I was too fat. I don’t think I’m fat – I think I’m in good shape. So I thought, “What do I say?” Do I go the childish route and be just like him and say something insensitive to upset him.
Or, do I take the high road, smile, nod and move on?
I did the former. You might think, what an “a-hole” but after I insulted him about his complexion, he got very self conscious. The sad thing was that there was nothing wrong with his complexion. I figured he was so self-conscious and had self-esteem issues that he only said what he said to make himself feel better. And I was right.
My guess is that most of the superficial comments by many of the guys here are for the same reason. A bunch of queeny bitches who have their own issues to contend with and have to insult others to make themselves feel better. It never ceases to amaze me how many beautiful people can be so ugly on the inside.
Perhaps Shawn Hunter wasn’t your typical hot piece of ass, but he had attractive qualities. And he might even be a super great person on the inside, too.
All of these critical bitches ASSES would look just like Shawn if they could just lose the 350 lbs !!!