"Suck it, you little faggot cocksucker!" You may not have heard these words before, but they're likely being said on a daily basis. Why? Because someone is turned on by hearing them, whether it's the guy on his knees being face-fucked or the guy whose mouth the words emerge from.
I get the whole dominant-submissive thing, but there's a difference between taking hold of someone's ears and saying "I want you to gag on my cock, pussy boy bitch."
What's this obsession with referring to assholes as lady parts? If it doesn't purr when you pet it, it ain't no pussy! Frankly, hearing the word "boycunt" makes me a little uncomfortable.
Well, you can probably figure out how I feel about this one, so what's your take on this matter? Does the verbal abuse get you ready to take it deep or have you running for the door? And for all the exclusive tops, do you ever talk to your bottoms like this?
– Dewitt
I totally agree. I’m a verbal guy but the biggest turn off is when someone calls an ass a pussy. I’ve told guys if I wanted to fuck a pussy I’d fuck a girl. I don’t have a pussy either. Damn!
When it comes to finding a hot big dick top (there are only a few out there) I stick with this guideline
No scripts (Yeah you like that don’t you)
No props (Slings etc)
No costumes (Leather, drag)
No animals Pigs or bears for that matter.
I think it’s important that there is a vocal minority of gay dudes out there that are living out some childhood abuse. They do this by participating in demeaning sexual behavior.
I’m Not a shrink, just a really smart gay guy.
I know, it felt weird and kinda gettho so I decided to changed to “mangina”
hmm. i had sex with a guy who kept referring to my ass as ‘pussy’, but honestly that was quite a turn on. after that, when we met again, i was referring to it as ‘pussy’ myself, asking him to ‘fuck my pussy’ while we were at it.
i don’t see anything wrong with it. i don’t literally imagine it as a pussy, but i guess it makes me feel more submissive and him more dominant, because women are generally submissive in sex.
besides it’s the natural way 😉
adam and eve, not adam and steve! (how original)
(lol. ignore the last part)
Yea I dont get it either..I think its degrading and would never put up with it. I mean maybe a little ” awww you like that” but to be insulted by derogatory words is another story all together.!
I wouldn’t call myself a dom, but I do trend that way.
I have a hard time forming coherent thoughts and well-structured sentences in the heat of passion, the base animal part of my brain takes over the more cerebral aspect; some guttural moans of pleasure and a few words of encouragement when he does something that feels good are about all I can muster.
I never understood the whole thing of being aroused by being humiliated.
You wanna turn me on?
Tell me how fabulous I am!
i’m pretty dom in bed… but i like, don’t talk…
i only talk if they’re doing something wrong… like needing to stop thrusting every couple seconds so they don’t cum… (honestly, if you’re gonna cum that fast, let it out and do me again later in the night >.> )
ooohh verbal insults are so hot. i’m a bottom and i pretty much love it. like jose said, something about the top seeming more dominant and aggressive. nothin wrong with that.
and joe, i’m pretty sure i had an abuse free childhood. so unless i’ve repressed something, seems to me this “sexual behavior” is just something i find hot
i look rather feminine and such, with the eyeliner and tight clothes, and i am bottoming more often than not, but if someone says words like these to me, i put them in their place fast. if his cock is in my mouth, i slide up to the top and bring my teeth out, resting them just under the lip under the head and applying gentle pressure. the message gets across. if we are doing something else when he says things like that, i just flip him over and pin him, making sure my hands are holding his arms tight enough to leave some minor bruises. that way, i get to assert the fact that i am the dominant one, without such language.
I have nothing against people who enjoy that kind of thing, but I’ve never been into verbal dialogue very much. As for someone calling me names while having sex, well let’s just we wouldn’t be having sex anymore.
But I’ve known people who enjoy that (either as a dom or a sub), and I’m not about to judge what someone else does in bed, LOL.
I just know calling me names will result in your ass being kicked out of my apartment in a New York minute.
manpussy… boycunt… mangina… ANY of these I just find a total turnoff. I’m an ass fucker. Just my preference. However, I am a verbal dom top. I just don’t use those words or any variation thereof.
To each his own, but I find vocalization to be silly, and often I wind up giggling at the absurdity of what’s being said.
And personally, I think sex with all that chatter is equivalent to waving your arms about while talking, which I hate. If you can’t talk without gesturing wildly, maybe you’re not such a good conversationalist. If you have to offer a soliloquy every time you’re between the sheets…