Despite the fact that I consider myself an embracer* rather than a chaser, I’m a bit concerned with the Brian Moylan-ization of MTV’s “Chubby Chasers” installment of True Life. On one hand, it’s great to see bears getting some national attention! On the other hand, do I really want a bunch of tweens thinking I date/fuck big guys because I want them to protect me? It just goes to show you that even people who are part of a community might not fully understand it.
– Dewitt
* As in, I embrace ALL body types, including skinny dudes and bearish types.
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of course they show the Asian boys wanting their potatoes. Rice and potato anyone?
Being a chubby guy, I’m not offended and I’ve never dated anyone that needed protection, well maybe from me lol. Hate to say it Dewitt… who cares what others think. Others will say what they will say, no matter what your intentions are.
Most (please note, I said most) chasers are only into chubby guys because they like to prey upon their low self esteem.
people who have different opinions than you should not be shown on tv.
There are lots of reasons for anyone being attracted to different types of people or to one specific type. I’m a chubby guy only into chasers, and I think most traditional looking gays, like I assume Cody to be, think anyone who isn’t fit and an abercrombie model must have low self esteem and feel worthless. And I for one have no issues in the self esteem area and wish the pretty twinky fit gay population would stop trying to ostracize and stereotype the rest of us.
As for this show, I’m friends with the chaser and the chub, and I just hope MTV doesn’t turn this into a gag reel for the public. I don’t really have high hopes with them, but of course they are going to edit this the way they see fit. And if Justin, the chaser, feels protected by his bear, what is wrong with that? Everyone has different qualities and finding the right person to complement those qualities is as we know a trying task. So what is wrong with wanted to feel protected, or wanting to be the protector? I like being the bigger guy and having my smaller guy to hold and protect.
I read so many of the comments on here and it makes me sick to see so many of you.. A-List wannabe’s who have no compassion or regard for others unless it fits into your superficial little world. There IS more than prada and tanning ladies… So lets look at this show and maybe learn something about people that don’t fit your mold of perfection.
got that right A chubby chaser named D. cox is biggest user of all
People like “Cody” and his comment “most) chasers are only into chubby guys because they like to prey upon their low self esteem.” Is such a crock. Seems like he is a little bitter he was turned down by a chaser who went for a chubby guy. I’m Chubby and my self-esteem is just fine. I lost weight and got in shape, joined the Marines, served my country. After I got out the weight slowly came back on. I have nothing to “prove” to the so called gay community at all. I think it’s sad how many gays turn onto one another because they are not queeney enough, smooth enough, hollistered enough etc. I have a lot of straight friends that are friends because I am not the “stereotype”. It’s the stereotype that straights have of us that make us the object of derision. It’s even more sad that gays critisize others who don’t fit into their own petty superificial world.
Really tacky to lash out at someone like that. And if it’s the one from Crestview, FL you couldn’t be more WRONG!
I don’t understand why men can’t just be men.
I never said where he lives and I can damn well say the truth here , If you don’t like it I will bend so u can kiss it
just like a fat chubby man, make up stuff to make yourself feel better. chasers are a sick breed and D.COX IS THE WORST
I don’t know whether to be flattered or offended that you all thought I am a “traditional-looking gay.” In fact, I am a chubby guy and my previous comment was based upon my personal experiences with guys who identify as “chasers.” In all fairness, I recently ended a relationship with one such chaser and am, admittedly, bitter. In my most of my ventures in the chub/chaser scene, I got the distinct impression that my chaser expected me to be on my knees (pun intended) thanking him for finding me attractive after I’d (in his mind) been rejected by so many “traditional-looking gays.” I may be chubby, but I’m confident and I value myself enough to know that I deserve better than a pity fuck. Personally, I’d rather be with another chub, or bear, etc. You can keep your six pack abs, cum gutters (thanks for my new favorite word, Dewitt), and shitty, self-consumed personality.
I’m in fear of this episode
Like you DeWitt, I embrace all sizes, I like to call myself bi-sizual. I am a chubby bear, and it can be a hard word for a gay man. The sterotypical gays say you are not the “imagine” of a gay man, and you can even be an outsider in the bear community, as many of the “muscle” bears look down upon you. I was once told at a “bear run” that a person cannot be a bear and a chub, you have to be one or the other. It is such a shame that we are fighting to be accepted in the hetrosexual world, and yet we cannot accept each other as we are in our own world.
That being said, I am a proud, gay, chubby bear, so take me as I am.
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Hey, I am a chubby who believes in the ability to love who you love without requirements on size. I have seen what Cody is talking about in my travels, but have more often found people to be better humans than that. It all comes down to being a good person. Those who prey on people with low self esteem generally have low self esteem themselves and need something to bolster it. It is sad but it happens. There is someone for everyone and once we stop putting labels on each other we will realize love and attraction are emotions that don’t come with a size card. I have been with skinny men, big, men younger and older, the only pre-requisite I have is that you be a good person. (and have good hygiene) Cody, There is someone worth your love and respect and it doesn’t matter there size, it matters how much heart they have how much love is filled in for you.
From the brown chub with lots of love to give.
Drama queen, I don’t make stuff up. Seems like you are well suited to the games people play on here. Peace.
EW!
I’m sorry but I do not find obesity hot or sexy. And I am entitled to my own opinion. HWP and being healthy is a good thing America!